01-02-2013, 02:06 PM
I conceptualize 'gender' and 'sexuality' as a continuum or spectrum. We slide along this spectrum between masculine and feminine, or heterosexuality and homosexuality at various times for various reasons. Unfortunately, in this confused state, we have a tendency to think in inflexible ways - either/or, black-and-white (e.g., male/female or hetro/homosexual).