To the truly balanced entity no situation would be emotionally charged.

[Plenum]

I had an insight into the attraction/avoidance mechanic.

avoidance is quite often linked to repulsion; or wanting the thought or idea to get as far away from you as possible.

this repulsion can be likened to a rock, that is tied to an elastic band. You throw the rock as hard as possible away from you, and the avoidance works, for a little while.

but soon after, the elastic reaches full stretch, and know what? the rock changes direction, and comes straight back at ya ...