12-05-2012, 02:47 AM
Well the risk I see here is that, with continued game-playing without communication, is that each person might fabricate their idea of what the person is like, and they might be totally wrong.
It's easy to continue the game-playing, while getting satisfaction from fantasizing, and then when/if the day comes that they actually interact on other levels, they might find that they are nothing like the fantasy.
So it would seem to me that the sooner you start an actual conversation with her - not necessarily ask her out, but just initiate some interaction on another level - then the sooner you can find out if you really do have a connection beyond game-playing.
Meanwhile, if you care to share, why did you rule out the other girl so quickly?
It's easy to continue the game-playing, while getting satisfaction from fantasizing, and then when/if the day comes that they actually interact on other levels, they might find that they are nothing like the fantasy.
So it would seem to me that the sooner you start an actual conversation with her - not necessarily ask her out, but just initiate some interaction on another level - then the sooner you can find out if you really do have a connection beyond game-playing.
Meanwhile, if you care to share, why did you rule out the other girl so quickly?
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