12-04-2012, 09:58 PM
(This post was last modified: 12-04-2012, 10:00 PM by kanonathena.)
haha, I am not in this situation right now, but I have been there before. I usually choose to ignore and avoid or even act like I'm not at all the kind of person she believes me to be.
I have been holding off for the perfect girl since forever. In my short life I meet several girls that are 70% or even 80% of a perfect match for me, I feel very strong attraction for them too, but I know I won't be able to communicate 100% to them. I know once I engage in these relationship, I won't have the chance to be with the perfect girl if I ever meet her again. I have met the perfect girl twice in my life, I don't know if they are the same person (extremely similar looking/vib). Another problem is that I am too shy, plus the eye contact I have with that girl makes me content enough not to do anything.
Right now in the office I works in, there is another girl... lol... there is a natural attraction. She wants me to express, I being too shy and thinking too much, not able to open up. I actually had the courage to ask her out out of blue, she said she has a boyfriend. But she still seems to want me to talk to her, I found my stuff rearranged on my desk every Monday morning... plus lots of other gestures... This been going on for two months now since I began working here, should I ask her out again? The thing is in front of the girl I like I found it difficult to talk, the only words I can say is that three words, anything else sounds disgenuine to me.
Thank god meditation and focusing on spiritual staff has opened me up gradually, but time is growing thin.
I have been holding off for the perfect girl since forever. In my short life I meet several girls that are 70% or even 80% of a perfect match for me, I feel very strong attraction for them too, but I know I won't be able to communicate 100% to them. I know once I engage in these relationship, I won't have the chance to be with the perfect girl if I ever meet her again. I have met the perfect girl twice in my life, I don't know if they are the same person (extremely similar looking/vib). Another problem is that I am too shy, plus the eye contact I have with that girl makes me content enough not to do anything.
Right now in the office I works in, there is another girl... lol... there is a natural attraction. She wants me to express, I being too shy and thinking too much, not able to open up. I actually had the courage to ask her out out of blue, she said she has a boyfriend. But she still seems to want me to talk to her, I found my stuff rearranged on my desk every Monday morning... plus lots of other gestures... This been going on for two months now since I began working here, should I ask her out again? The thing is in front of the girl I like I found it difficult to talk, the only words I can say is that three words, anything else sounds disgenuine to me.
Thank god meditation and focusing on spiritual staff has opened me up gradually, but time is growing thin.