12-04-2012, 05:27 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-04-2012, 05:28 AM by kanonathena.)
Say a girl feels a strong attraction to a guy. The guy being extremely sensitive, knowing the pain girls endures but also that the two are on completely different paths.
One option is for the guy to avoid situations of being alone with the girl, or disappearing from the girl completely, so that the girl can forget about the guy.
Another option is to have more transparent conversation with the girl, however, risking making the girl falling in love even more, still unable to reciprocate love.
The guy knows the girl most likely won't learn the spiritual lesson, both situations being very traumatic to varying degree.
Under law of responsibility, if the guy knows that the girl won't learn the lesson and aware of every emotion and intensity of emotion of the girl, should he choose the option that will offer least trauma for the girl? Or should he see from the spiritual perspective, remain open, helping the girl go through this experience, knowing the girl won't learn the lesson and will likely experience much more trauma than if the guy just disappear?
One option is for the guy to avoid situations of being alone with the girl, or disappearing from the girl completely, so that the girl can forget about the guy.
Another option is to have more transparent conversation with the girl, however, risking making the girl falling in love even more, still unable to reciprocate love.
The guy knows the girl most likely won't learn the spiritual lesson, both situations being very traumatic to varying degree.
Under law of responsibility, if the guy knows that the girl won't learn the lesson and aware of every emotion and intensity of emotion of the girl, should he choose the option that will offer least trauma for the girl? Or should he see from the spiritual perspective, remain open, helping the girl go through this experience, knowing the girl won't learn the lesson and will likely experience much more trauma than if the guy just disappear?