How do you learn from/understand catalyst when it doesn't make any sense?

[Vasistha]

...That's what pisses me off mostly, not getting a decent honest reply, when they knew I'd given up everything for this position.

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Hello W1981,

Have you been in one or many situations in the past of not giving an honest reply to others? If 'yes', have you totally forgiven yourself for this?

Catalysts like to test our 'acceptance' boundaries. As long as it piss you off, this is working.

Keep the light touch.