*trigger* beware need advice

[Monica]

As a person who has abused, when I look back, I can clearly see the pattern that I abused because deep inside me I felt cut off from everything else and everybody else. In other words, I felt alone and undervalued, with no purpose or hope in life. Though the first seeds of my abuse of my mother stemmed directly from the greatly horrible experiences with my father who abused me in the most imaginative of psychological ways (especially in the context and culture of my country), it is only right to now admit and accept that I chose the path without stopping to consciously search, as an adult, for appropriate methods of alleviating my situation.

Oh, Confused, I had no idea you had experienced these things!

Thank you for opening up and sharing your struggles and what you have learned. Your courageous sharing may help others who read this!

I don't know what to say, so I will send you extra love!

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And it is for the sake of sanity, that I feel that lightworker may be better off without confrontation.

Maybe so. This thread has offered many different viewpoints, that might help her in making her choice.

And it is for the sake of clarity, that I also must tell her that I don't know what I'm talking about.

None of us really do!