*trigger* beware need advice

[J.Q.]

What would you do? Would you let him rot? Or would you take possibly the last opportunity you may have to confront him?

First and foremost, thank you for inviting us all into your heart.

Secondly, you already know the answer, now you just need to let it unfold.

I will add only this obversation: leaving aside all the very deep and nuanced spiritual and psychological questions of what and how and why, there is a cold, hard fact I don't believe anyone has yet pointed out.

If you do not go to see him, you will always ask yourself afterwards what would have happened if you did. But if you do go to see him, no matter what happens (and whatever it may turn out to be, it will surely be very, very different from any of your imaginary run-throughs of the event), you are very unlikely to ask yourself what would have happened if you had not gone. Even if it turns out to be painful or an apparent waste of time, you will know that you made the effort, and will most likely have no regrets.

Unless there is something I'm missing, that is not a subjective observation, it is a simple fact. It is, at any rate, the best I have to offer.

Best of luck.