*trigger* beware need advice

[Cyan]

Sorry in advance if this is inappropriate, but I feel that the situation has a huge impact on who I am & my work here. I'm going to keep this as simple as possible.

My grandfather molested me throughout my childhood. I also found out later on he did it to my sister too. I never had the courage to tell my parents -- until I was a teenager. They did nothing about it. NOTHING. I guess they never really knew what to do about something that happened so long ago.

So my dad tells me the other day that my grandfather is dying in the hospital. I am having a hard time with this.

My advice:

Go there and spend a dying mans last moments comforting him that even the worst crimes can be overcome and the worst pains healed.