11-01-2012, 10:26 PM
Follow your intuition. Be sure that you are guided by your heart, not your ego or mind.
I cannot imagine the situation you are in. But I will give my humble opinion nonetheless for are we not all one?
Confrontation is not necessarily bad. There are many Q'uo readings about how the best way to process catalyst of one who has wronged you is to confront them from a place of love. Even if you cannot do this, I think the mere act of attempting to confront him in order to further love and forgiveness is a good thing.
When I have been confronted with similar (but much less intense) situations, I often find that I am best able to confront with love when I personally do the following:
(1) internally process the catalyst, with love, forgiveness and acceptance for the entity that caused it before seeing that entity
(2) understanding that many people's minds fracture when they do something horrible, to such an extent that they are in denial, and as such, I understand and I realize that I may never get the acknowledgement that I desire (my career that puts me in contact with criminals has helped me tremendously understand the criminal mind)
(3) and release the karmic bonds simply vibrating with forgiveness, or attempting to, one final time around that person who has wronged me. I might not prefer to interact with them again, but I try to say or do one significantly good thing to them to vibrate the knowledge that I have forgiven them. Often, if this is a person who I believe will be in denial if I just say something like "I forgive you" (some are in such denial they will say "for what - get out of here I did nothing!!" but its important to have compassion for those people whose mind has fractured, for they do really live an tortured internal existence), and so instead a simple moment where I prep them food, or put my hand on theirs with a warm smile. I'm not suggesting you be at their side 24/7, but a simple moment like that, and ending your interaction with them with loving smile, has done wonders for me.
I have often had discussions with religious/spiritually inclined friends about the fact that true evil exists in this world increases our ability to love.
For is it not true that:
nearly all people can love the saints among us;
many can love those individuals who are good at heart but have hurt others in error;
some can love those who were completely selfish in that past but have recently turned from that path;
but it is few indeed who can love and appreciate the truly monstrous among us.
Our souls here on the Earth plane are forged in fire. The fire that touched you was particularly scorching. May the flames one day die down so that you can radiate your pristine inner spiritual beauty for all to see, for all to share in, and for all those who have wronged you. If not today, maybe another day; but it is a day that is surely to come.
Peace and love my friend.
xise
I cannot imagine the situation you are in. But I will give my humble opinion nonetheless for are we not all one?
Confrontation is not necessarily bad. There are many Q'uo readings about how the best way to process catalyst of one who has wronged you is to confront them from a place of love. Even if you cannot do this, I think the mere act of attempting to confront him in order to further love and forgiveness is a good thing.
When I have been confronted with similar (but much less intense) situations, I often find that I am best able to confront with love when I personally do the following:
(1) internally process the catalyst, with love, forgiveness and acceptance for the entity that caused it before seeing that entity
(2) understanding that many people's minds fracture when they do something horrible, to such an extent that they are in denial, and as such, I understand and I realize that I may never get the acknowledgement that I desire (my career that puts me in contact with criminals has helped me tremendously understand the criminal mind)
(3) and release the karmic bonds simply vibrating with forgiveness, or attempting to, one final time around that person who has wronged me. I might not prefer to interact with them again, but I try to say or do one significantly good thing to them to vibrate the knowledge that I have forgiven them. Often, if this is a person who I believe will be in denial if I just say something like "I forgive you" (some are in such denial they will say "for what - get out of here I did nothing!!" but its important to have compassion for those people whose mind has fractured, for they do really live an tortured internal existence), and so instead a simple moment where I prep them food, or put my hand on theirs with a warm smile. I'm not suggesting you be at their side 24/7, but a simple moment like that, and ending your interaction with them with loving smile, has done wonders for me.
I have often had discussions with religious/spiritually inclined friends about the fact that true evil exists in this world increases our ability to love.
For is it not true that:
nearly all people can love the saints among us;
many can love those individuals who are good at heart but have hurt others in error;
some can love those who were completely selfish in that past but have recently turned from that path;
but it is few indeed who can love and appreciate the truly monstrous among us.
Our souls here on the Earth plane are forged in fire. The fire that touched you was particularly scorching. May the flames one day die down so that you can radiate your pristine inner spiritual beauty for all to see, for all to share in, and for all those who have wronged you. If not today, maybe another day; but it is a day that is surely to come.
Peace and love my friend.
xise
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