Singles / Dating

[reeay]

i really really wish i could apply this.. but seeing my ex with another man makes all of that go away. and i wonder if this is polarizing me as STS

a bit sad now thinking of it.

Yeah it's hard to even believe we could get over something... I think it's important to do what you feel you need to do to learn about healing self (e.g., look, experience other relationships, broaden your perspective on relationships/self knowledge through intimate relationships). As some say, you can't change what happens to you but you may shift what that experience means to you. And when we shift how we feel about an experience and what that experience means to us, we may be shifting our present, past, and future self and how they experience the breakup/past relationship.

believe it or not it's very hard to meet people in SF
everyone is very flakey and egotistical.

hell i was too when i was living there, maybe i still am

lol yeah I understand what you're saying - I found that image was important in SF.