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Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - shandyshores - 06-04-2019
On page 36 in Book 2 session #31, Ra says that sexual domination leads to sexual energy blockages. I was wondering anyone had any insight on if this would include consensual sexual domination, in terms of a kink. I’m not sure if sexually exerting power over someone consensually and sexually exerting power over someone forcefully would be considered the same in terms of having potential for sexual energy blockages.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Louisabell - 06-04-2019
Yes it does. Kinks are blockages expressed sexually. It doesn't make them bad, it just makes them distortions.
Quote:26.38 ▶ Questioner: As you have stated before, it is a strait and narrow path. There are many distractions.
I plan to create an introduction, shall I say, to the Law of One, traveling through and hitting the high points of this 75,000 year cycle, possibly a few questions into the general future. After this introduction to the Law of One, as I call it, I would like to get directly to the main work, which is creating an understanding that can be disseminated to those who would ask for it, and only to those who would ask for it. For an understanding that can allow them to greatly accelerate their evolution. I am very appreciative and feel it a great honor and privilege to be doing this and hope that we can accomplish this next phase.
I have a question that the instrument has asked that I would like to ask for the instrument. She says, you speak of various types of energy blockages and transfers, positive and negative, that may take place due to participation in our sexual reproductive complex of actions. She states, please explain these blockages and energy transfers with emphasis upon what an individual seeking to be in accordance with the Law of One may positively do in this area? Is it possible for you to answer this question?
Ra: I am Ra. It is partially possible, given the background we have laid. This is properly a more advanced question. Due to the specificity of the question we may give general answer.
The first energy transfer is red ray. It is a random transfer having to do only with your reproductive system.
The orange- and the yellow-ray attempts to have sexual intercourse create, firstly, a blockage if only one entity vibrates in this area, thus causing the entity vibrating sexually in this area to have a never-ending appetite for this activity. What these vibratory levels are seeking is green-ray activity. There is the possibility of orange- or yellow-ray energy transfer; this being polarizing towards the negative: one being seen as object rather than other-self; the other seeing itself as plunderer or master of the situation.
In third* ray there are two possibilities. Firstly, if both vibrate in third* ray there will be a mutually strengthening energy transfer, the negative or female, as you call it, drawing the energy from the roots of the beingness up through the energy centers, thus being physically revitalized; the positive, or male polarity, as it is deemed in your illusion, finding in this energy transfer an inspiration which satisfies and feeds the spirit portion of the body/mind/spirit complex, thus both being polarized and releasing the excess of that which each has in abundance by nature of intelligent energy, that is, negative/intuitive, positive/physical energies as you may call them; this energy transfer being blocked only if one or both entities have fear of possession, of being possessed, of desiring possession or desiring being possessed.
* This should be fourth or green. Don and Ra corrected the error in session 32.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Nau7ik - 06-05-2019
Yes it is a distortion which causes blockage. There is a difference though between true BDSM, the master and slave mentality, belief in inferior and superior, and practicing that belief, THAT is negatively polarizing. Expressed as a consensual kink, it is a distortion. I have this distortion. I think consensual bdsm is sexually exciting. I don’t practice it, but in porn it’s hot. I keep it in fantasy. I’ve tried light bdsm with partners but found that I did not like it.
How is this distortion to be balanced?
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - ada - 06-05-2019
I don't know, but perhaps through meditation and when faced with this sort of catalyst to honor the other-self, teach them by example. Although you may not fulfill their burning desires, you may be that acceptance they needed, an unjudgeful loving action. This is perhaps one of many ways to balance, just a thought.
I also have simillar imbalances, I think it's a social distortion.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Diana - 06-05-2019
I have a close friend who is a true BDSM practitioner (as opposed to the current trendy wave born of that horrible book, Fifty Shades of Stupid). She is a switch, which means she can be the sub or the Domme. From talking to her I know a lot about the culture.
She tells me that the core of the practice is not about sex, but about trust. So maybe it is a path where people can open up to that. If you can learn to trust in one person, then perhaps this is a gateway to transparency, openness, and self-acceptance.
But I do think that because of the sexual content, it can be addicting, and that would be a blockage.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - JJCarsonian - 06-05-2019
(06-04-2019, 09:22 PM)shandyshores Wrote: On page 36 in Book 2 session #31, Ra says that sexual domination leads to sexual energy blockages. I was wondering anyone had any insight on if this would include consensual sexual domination, in terms of a kink. I’m not sure if sexually exerting power over someone consensually and sexually exerting power over someone forcefully would be considered the same in terms of having potential for sexual energy blockages.
Its the pre mindset of enjoying master/slave relationship that causes blockages. It means that you are already somewhat blocked in this regard.
Playing the role of master and slave means you already have some distortions towards power and dominance. This in itself will lead to blockages of sexual energy transfer. Your intentions are very important in any situation. Optimal sexual energy transfers occur when both hetero partners vibrate in green and blue and gives each other openly. I say hetero, because although there can be transfers between homo, its not the same type of transfers.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Glow - 06-05-2019
(06-05-2019, 08:36 AM)Nau7ik Wrote: Yes it is a distortion which causes blockage. There is a difference though between true BDSM, the master and slave mentality, belief in inferior and superior, and practicing that belief, THAT is negatively polarizing. Expressed as a consensual kink, it is a distortion. I have this distortion. I think consensual bdsm is sexually exciting. I don’t practice it, but in porn it’s hot. I keep it in fantasy. I’ve tried light bdsm with partners but found that I did not like it.
How is this distortion to be balanced?
I would say opening green ray further, maybe some blue ray understanding.
As a kid I was into that even up to early thirties. It came from being sexually abused as a child and then treated like a throw away growing up.
I know another also who was sexually abused (a male) and had this distortion in both cases it was an actual blockage. It may have seemed exciting and sexy but deep at its root was a memory of being treated as a thing for others pleasure, and that was tangled up somehow with that being how one knows they are really “loved”/wanted/accepted.
In both our cases it went away as the heart open further to not just embrace other but also ourselves.
It’s funny now to think back that I thought that was hot.
It’s so very clear from this side of healing that it was a furthering of the original wound, or at minimum reinforcement of the belief about self at its depth.
Just my 2cents
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - ada - 06-05-2019
(06-05-2019, 11:54 AM)Glow Wrote:(06-05-2019, 08:36 AM)Nau7ik Wrote: Yes it is a distortion which causes blockage. There is a difference though between true BDSM, the master and slave mentality, belief in inferior and superior, and practicing that belief, THAT is negatively polarizing. Expressed as a consensual kink, it is a distortion. I have this distortion. I think consensual bdsm is sexually exciting. I don’t practice it, but in porn it’s hot. I keep it in fantasy. I’ve tried light bdsm with partners but found that I did not like it.
How is this distortion to be balanced?
I would say opening green ray further, maybe some blue ray understanding.
As a kid I was into that even up to early thirties. It came from being sexually abused as a child and then treated like a throw away growing up.
I know another also who was sexually abused (a male) and had this distortion in both cases it was an actual blockage. It may have seemed exciting and sexy but deep at its root was a memory of being treated as a thing for others pleasure, and that was tangled up somehow with that being how one knows they are really “loved”/wanted/accepted.
In both our cases it went away as the heart open further to not just embrace other but also ourselves.
It’s funny now to think back that I thought that was hot.
It’s so very clear from this side of healing that it was a furthering of the original wound, or at minimum reinforcement of the belief about self at its depth.
Just my 2cents
Two of the partners I've had in the past have had these sort of fantasies/desires that I could never seem to fulfill, it just always felt not right to me. They both were abused in childhood. So I think you may have a point Glow. I'm very sorry for your suffering.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Minyatur - 06-05-2019
(06-05-2019, 08:36 AM)Nau7ik Wrote: How is this distortion to be balanced?
Like other distortions, not wanting to overcome where you are at but working with it.
Quote:It is the way of distortion that in order to balance a distortion one must accentuate it.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - AnthroHeart - 06-05-2019
So when someone says "can you do this?" in the bedroom, and the other person does that which they want,
is this domination? It's like a power sub. They tell the other person what they want them to do, and the other person
wants to do it.
How can you have bedroom play without someone recommending something, or just doing something, and the other
person accepting this or rejecting if they aren't in the mood?
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Louisabell - 06-05-2019
I have also found that repressed emotions of shame and deep embarrassment can express themselves through sexual kinks. The distortions/shadow parts of self are already there, the sexual manifestations being more like a cathartic expression of them. Much of sexuality is about expressing the true self, the id, underneath the societal mask, as you are stripped down to a more essential version of yourself.
I think a lot can be gained from exploring and analysing one's kinks, which is different from blind indulgence in them! Kinks often establish clearer boundaries of separation between sexual partners, which has all the excitement of playing in the illusion. Sexuality without blockage is about true union, thereby moving away from the illusionary boundaries of self and other-self.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - flofrog - 06-05-2019
I don’t have any kink in this incarnation but I am sure I had that distorsion and blockages in past ones, because it felt so familiar when I nearly relived it with a partner which is where I stopped that relationship. For this incarnation I am just bland, and into the trust area. I also truly loved someone so profoundly when I was young that it totally changed my life, I was so lucky.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - TheSeekersLighthouse - 06-06-2019
This was an odd issue for me, as I am a lightworker, and have been strictly for the light all my life. I am very open about myself, and thus will describe here my story re this as I hope it may help some. This is a gay couple relationship, but the dynamics will be almost the same. A word of warning, I do go into it quite intimately, so to those who do not wish to read those kinds of details may skip forward
One aspect of my life that I like, and enjoy with my husband is BDSM. Master/Slave play. Note, that this is done VERY CAREFULLY and a safeword is always possible to withdraw consent/end the play and preserve the free will of both parties. I like the feeling, if submissive to be in total trust to my partner, or if dominant, giving my partner a good time and exploring those areas of the psyche in a safe way. Someone previously mentioned that this is about TRUST. I could not emphasise this more, and in part due to this and other parts of our relationship, we have complete, total trust in our relationship. I do not worry if he is cheating on me, I do not worry about any of that, I trust, love and adore him.
I am what you would call a switch, and can switch roles, seldom do dom/sub exclusively, though was mostly sub for a long time.
In our general relationship and in private, we both are very loving/caring to each other and others, and I adore my husband. We treat each other as equals overall, and he is the kindest soul I know. We like to do things like feed the homeless together (our idea of a date out), and both have a full commitment to the service-to-others path to the best of our ability. We also have our own lives and hobbies outside of our marriage, such as our own friends. He is a caregiver, as well. We also both place great emphasis on free will of others and as such seldom get moved by the negativity of others.
When we want to 'play', this may include aspects of the following: foot/boot worship, going into a dominant role with a collar/puppy play, having your partner worship you (if dominant) or submissive (you worship them). Leather, and other play is typical. Maybe relaxing and have your partner serve you by licking your feet or massaging you as you relax and do whatever. Foot worship being a common kink of mine. If I were sub, foot worship/licking is also a common one. This is just a fetish, and probably my biggest one, so it generally comes into play with me. Whipping is quite good, but not at an insane level.
We have explored degrading one another verbally, but I find this one to be the most at risk of a negative transfer and is actually the only time my partner safe worded and I felt very awkward as that is not in my MO, so we don't do that. It was an experiment more than anything. I found with previous meetings of people i played with and not had a relationship with, being degraded was quite fun (me as the sub), but i find where I am at now in my development, it seems to be vibration ally incompatible with a loving relationship and thus has not been used bar that one experiment in my marriage.
In the forms above I describe, the submissive technically holds all the power, via use of a safeword. My partner has only safeworded once as mentioned above, but that is why it is there so you do not go too far and always preserve the free-will aspect.
As for the energy exchange, this is one aspect where you must be very careful. I have found moments where we do BDSM, provided you place great emphasis on the sub having the ability to stop at any time and preserving free will, and have an overall loving relationship, I found the play itself to be neutral in its polarity when you play like this unless you do it for the purpose of making your partner happy or via TRUST (which again was mentioned previously in the thread) which would be positive, you can use such play to reinforce love/trust. Being bound and tied up completely helpless with your entire trust in the love of your life? Great feeling.
Of course, it can also also be a vector for abuse in some individuals, and it can also be taken too far. If you do it for your own personal gain and manipulate your sub into it, even if they enjoy it, it is probably negative. Those sorts of people though, do not last long in the BDSM community, as this is one thing it strives to avoid.
I also find if you lust/hunger for it, orange-ray blockages can be an issue. I do find me and my partner can achieve green/blue/indigo ray transfer with ease when vanilla. When doing BDSM, I find the ray transfer to vary. Some having been green/blue (think, the honest communication can go VERY DEEP when exploring your deepest aspects of self and shadow self with your partner, and to do this safely requires total honest communication and compassion), others if the mood got very lustful to be blocked at orange-ray. This was particular on the day my partner safe worded.
I have also found something to tally with Ra's statement, that attempting to 'humiliate' your sub, even when consenting may cause a negative transfer, and I suspect full 24/7 master/slave type setups may, but I have not nor have a desire to experience that, so cannot observe it.
There is also the time when I dominated with someone who had self-hate issues unbeknown to me. This caused problems and required energy healing afterwards on him. It all depends on the person. Those of sound mind and balanced, it can be another way to have fun. Those who may have issues, it can cause problems if improperly used. It is a tool in the box of exploring the creator, and can be well.
Whenever I did BDSM, i always observed other-self as the creator equal to me at it's core, even when watching porn.
It is a grey area. I do not think it is an entirely positive desire, but i don't think that it can be a totally negative one, either. Depends how/why you do such play. I have seen some examples such as a profile I read a few years back on the kink site recon:
"I am looking for genuine subs to own and control" <- with an overall negative vibe, or
"Looking to have some fun with subs" <- this one I met, had a cup of tea and a laugh with, and served him and had fun, then had another cup of tea and talked about life and other stuff, and that was that!
I had some flip out on me for daring to speak to them, in total full master/slave type mood before it started, others who would have a natter and a chat, and it all depended on the person involved.
I met quite a few spiritual/pagan type people on recon, and had many good/fun times with guys, and actually we all acknowledged the benefits to our paths. And outside of kink? had a good chat, and a nice time as people. Now I am married and have long since toned that down, but I do not regret exploring those aspects of myself and others with the people that I did.
Some kink involves kink without the dom/sub aspect, such as feet/leather/boot and other similar fetishes on their own.
It is such a varied world, and I don't think it could be summed up in a paragraph.
I say enjoy, but for those who place emphasis on free-will, please play with a safe word. I say this is essential even if you know your partner well, to fully preserve the free-will of your sub and not leave it to your judgement. A dominant should also have a safeword, if the sub asks them to do something that they do not wish to do.
Note that I am also in a relationship involving full trust and we are both open and happy with each other and are fulfilled and loved in all areas. Trusting your partner is essential to this. The BDSM community often uses the mantra: safe, sane, consensual and as such, should be treated thus.
Explore, and play safe folks!
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - JJCarsonian - 06-06-2019
i have to admit, i do enjoy a little bit of rough porn from time to time. Its a distortion I'd like to drop. I think it started at a young age when I watched some movies maybe set in the Roman times, where the elite were selling sex slave women, and it kind of aroused me. Before then, I use to just daydream about honest sexual love energy transfer between me and some girl I liked
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - rva_jeremy - 06-06-2019
I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - flofrog - 06-06-2019
how so wise jeremy thank you. fact as any distorsion being a tool for learning.
it is interesting to see that through deep love and trust anything can be explored since mutual consensus to stop and free will respected are always there.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - AnthroHeart - 06-06-2019
(06-06-2019, 03:41 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote: I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.
I would think that exploring, accepting, and balancing would distort less, not further.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - rva_jeremy - 06-06-2019
(06-06-2019, 04:44 PM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote:(06-06-2019, 03:41 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote: I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.
I would think that exploring, accepting, and balancing would distort less, not further.
I don't think you can reliably distort less in this experience. Chastity or acceptance are themselves also distortions of the one original thought, at least in this world. I know that seems weird, like we can never get back to unity, but it's just a recognition that we're in third density not to be pure but to be intense.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Louisabell - 06-07-2019
In my experience of 6th ray energy transfers you need to be 100% present and focused, there is no room for imagination, or even a sense of a separate personality. It doesn't even seem "sexy", but sacred, more like experiencing yourself as an individualised portion of consciousness interfacing with yourself as otherself through eachothers bio-computers. You don't even really feel human anymore, yet the energy flow is more intense than any other form of sexuality (full body orgasm)
Having said that it takes heaps more effort, and its a lot easier to collect sexual energy in the lower energy centres until it overflows into physical orgasm. Kinks excite the lower triad expressions of power, if it didn't then why would people bother with fantasies of various power dynamics? Fantasies are a turning away. They're not bad, there is always a time for distraction, but they're also not accepting what is.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Stranger - 06-07-2019
(06-06-2019, 07:29 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote:(06-06-2019, 04:44 PM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote:(06-06-2019, 03:41 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote: I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.
I would think that exploring, accepting, and balancing would distort less, not further.
I don't think you can reliably distort less in this experience. Chastity or acceptance are themselves also distortions of the one original thought, at least in this world. I know that seems weird, like we can never get back to unity, but it's just a recognition that we're in third density not to be pure but to be intense.
Jeremy, unless I am misunderstanding your statement, it is perhaps the most surprising distortion of the Law of One that I have seen on these forums.
Throughout the texts we are repeatedly told that wanderers incarnate here to balance love with wisdom, or wisdom with love, etc.
Together with Love, Acceptance itself is a core part of the STO path, the counterpart to control on the STS path. Simply, we cannot love what we cannot accept - if we try, we end up resisting, fighting or "fixing" it, which are all antagonistic actions. But, to quote Q'uo, "[we] are here to love it, not fix it", and therefore we must accept it. Loving it is how we balance it.
One can say that the STO path itself is a distortion - but that's meaningless because so is everything apart from the original Oneness. If it's a distortion, then it's the one distortion which we need to increase in order to progress spiritually. This we accomplish by accepting, loving and balancing other distortions within us, the ones that keep us in the sinkhole of indifference by making some of our choices and actions STO but others STS - one step forward, one step back. (Including, for the purposes of this thread, distortions that lead us to engage in control-based games, sexual or otherwise).
Our goal is a return to unity - the ultimate harmony - and we can only get there by "ironing out" the disharmonies within us - through loving, accepting, and balancing (I prefer healing) them.
As we work to remove impurities within ourselves, we naturally rise up toward the purer layers of Creation, closer to the absolute purity of Oneness.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - AnthroHeart - 06-07-2019
(06-06-2019, 07:29 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote:(06-06-2019, 04:44 PM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote:(06-06-2019, 03:41 PM)rva_jeremy Wrote: I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.
I would think that exploring, accepting, and balancing would distort less, not further.
I don't think you can reliably distort less in this experience. Chastity or acceptance are themselves also distortions of the one original thought, at least in this world. I know that seems weird, like we can never get back to unity, but it's just a recognition that we're in third density not to be pure but to be intense.
I believe even Ra says they have distortions towards teaching. But they do aim to "smooth" their distortions.
I believe being in a meditative state is less distorting than a mosh pit. I guess depending on what you're working through.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - rva_jeremy - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 08:02 AM)Stranger Wrote: Jeremy, unless I am misunderstanding your statement, it is perhaps the most surprising distortion of the Law of One that I have seen on these forums.
I am grateful for the compliment!
(06-07-2019, 08:02 AM)Stranger Wrote: One can say that the STO path itself is a distortion - but that's meaningless because so is everything apart from the original Oneness. If it's a distortion, then it's the one distortion which we need to increase in order to progress spiritually. This we accomplish by accepting, loving and balancing other distortions within us, the ones that keep us in the sinkhole of indifference by making some of our choices and actions STO but others STS - one step forward, one step back. (Including, for the purposes of this thread, distortions that lead us to engage in control-based games, sexual or otherwise).
Our goal is a return to unity - the ultimate harmony - and we can only get there by "ironing out" the disharmonies within us - through loving, accepting, and balancing (I prefer healing) them.
One can say that -- in fact, that is what I was saying. Whether you think my statement contains meaning or not is entirely up to you, Stranger, and not a fight I have a dog in. I totally see how my statement could irk somebody setting a goal for themselves to return to ultimate unity and harmony.
I just think the personality constructs we inhabit in third density are not designed to meet that total goal in this lifetime. So there's no reason, in my opinion, to judge our progress by that measure. It's better, in my opinion, to understand distortion qua distortion than to understand distortion only in terms of how far it is from some imagined ideal. But that's just my approach, and I don't share my approach in order to preclude others finding what works for them.
Thanks for the comment!
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - rva_jeremy - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 10:42 AM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote: I believe being in a meditative state is less distorting than a mosh pit. I guess depending on what you're working through.
Exactly. This is what I'm talking about… getting ourselves out of the implicit judgment of separating our experience into more distorted / less distorted when we often don't have a reliable yardstick in the first place. Having some curiosity for how utterly various the human experience is for each of us.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - krb - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 11:04 AM)rva_jeremy Wrote:(06-07-2019, 08:02 AM)Stranger Wrote: Jeremy, unless I am misunderstanding your statement, it is perhaps the most surprising distortion of the Law of One that I have seen on these forums.
I am grateful for the compliment!
(06-07-2019, 08:02 AM)Stranger Wrote: One can say that the STO path itself is a distortion - but that's meaningless because so is everything apart from the original Oneness. If it's a distortion, then it's the one distortion which we need to increase in order to progress spiritually. This we accomplish by accepting, loving and balancing other distortions within us, the ones that keep us in the sinkhole of indifference by making some of our choices and actions STO but others STS - one step forward, one step back. (Including, for the purposes of this thread, distortions that lead us to engage in control-based games, sexual or otherwise).
Our goal is a return to unity - the ultimate harmony - and we can only get there by "ironing out" the disharmonies within us - through loving, accepting, and balancing (I prefer healing) them.
One can say that -- in fact, that is what I was saying. Whether you think my statement contains meaning or not is entirely up to you, Stranger, and not a fight I have a dog in. I totally see how my statement could irk somebody setting a goal for themselves to return to ultimate unity and harmony.
I just think the personality constructs we inhabit in third density are not designed to meet that total goal in this lifetime. So there's no reason, in my opinion, to judge our progress by that measure. It's better, in my opinion, to understand distortion qua distortion than to understand distortion only in terms of how far it is from some imagined ideal. But that's just my approach, and I don't share my approach in order to preclude others finding what works for them.
Thanks for the comment!
We don't have to meet the "total goal" in this incarnation, but there's no reason we can't advance as far towards whatever goal we choose in this incarnation. I also choose to work on disharmonies here in this incarnation. Others may choose to "play" in the kinks and distortions. No problem. No judgement.
You mentioned the "yardstick". My "yardstick" is my heart, my inner guide. I can trust it. If I've experienced something that has left a "negative" impression on me or if it doesn't lead me to the "highest" form of love towards the "other", I can choose to exercise my will and move away from that distortion.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Louisabell - 06-07-2019
I think Jeremy raises a really relevant point. Unity is not really a goal, unity is goal-less, unity just is once you're no longer interested in separation.
In my travels I have found distortions to be nothing more than preoccupations. When we aren't so preoccupied with our desires, fantasies, imagination, personal interests, then we have space to observe more. We have more emotional bandwidth to be at awe of what is currently around us and in us. One might even stop and think, "whoa where am I? Who am I?" for the first time as they progress in their life.
The orginal thought, love, is also a preoccupation inwhich the Creator dreamt up a universe for us out of timelessness. Our lives are a constant communication between us and the Creator. How would an infinite being communicate with us? Through words, pictures, or through entire worlds? Worlds that stun and mesmerize.
There is nothing spectacular about progressing spirituality for once you see, it is so essential in truth, that you just simply wonder why you never noticed it before. It is the looking back of where we once were that we are then amazed.
Quote:Ra: ... It is to be once again iterated that healing is but one distortion of the Law of One. To reach an undistorted understanding of that law, it is not necessary to heal or, indeed, to show any manifestation but only to exercise the disciplines of understanding.
The beauty of the LOO is in how Ra masterfully points out that any bias is a deviation away from the perfect equanimity of infinite potential. The below statement of Ra really caught my attention in the early days. Now I am coming to understand its significance.
Quote:It is not for a being of polarity in the physical consciousness to pick and choose among attributes, thus building the roles that cause blockages and confusions in the already-distorted mind complex. Each acceptance smoothes part of the many distortions that the faculty you call judgment engenders.
Having chasity, having kinks, these are are all attributes, attributes not for us to pick and choose, we are all those things, and more essentially, none of those things.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - JJCarsonian - 06-07-2019
Anyone want to roleplay? JK
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Glow - 06-07-2019
I don’t think it’s quite that simple. The illusion is separation so all actions that take selfishly or give due to perceived need to be taken from/unworthiness drive further into exploration of illusion.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Infinite Unity - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 05:01 PM)Glow Wrote: I don’t think it’s quite that simple. The illusion is separation so all actions that take selfishly or give due to perceived need to be taken from/unworthiness drive further into exploration of illusion.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.
Without illusion there is only a singularity, or singular being. With illusion there is a mirage, which is neither separation, or singularity, but unity.
Unity inherently is separation, while at the same time harmony. Units, working or being together essentially. A common goal is most often times interpreted as the coherence or causality of, what 3d entities assume is Unity.
Unity essentially means separate but connected or One.
There is One energy that can be harnassed through service to others(Unity), and from service to self(separation). It is not that these two options create the energy, but rather allow for the entity to harness it. To use it, to work with it. To tap into it.
Complete separation is falsity, due to it only being potentiated through illusion. Unity with in singularity is as close a representation of the functioning or operation of singularity. All things are one visa ve.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Minyatur - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 05:23 PM)Infinite Unity Wrote:(06-07-2019, 05:01 PM)Glow Wrote: I don’t think it’s quite that simple. The illusion is separation so all actions that take selfishly or give due to perceived need to be taken from/unworthiness drive further into exploration of illusion.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.
Without illusion there is only a singularity, or singular being. With illusion there is a mirage, which is neither separation, or singularity, but unity.
Unity inherently is separation, while at the same time harmony. Units, working or being together essentially. A common goal is most often times interpreted as the coherence or causality of, what 3d entities assume is Unity.
Unity essentially means separate but connected or One.
There is One energy that can be harnassed through service to others(Unity), and from service to self(separation). It is not that these two options create the energy, but rather allow for the entity to harness it. To use it, to work with it.
To me Unity really mean allness, so it is confusing to see how it is often reffered to as unlike what it is. In the basic description of the Law of One, Unity would be this "You are every thing, every being, every emotion, every event, every situation. You are unity. You are infinity.".
The unity of sunlight moving through a prism is all the colors, green is not anymore unity than the other colors also are together. Having learned Unity is to be like the Logos, to encompass all ways of distortions that free will enables. This is why polarity is not principle of learning Unity, because polarity keeps you separate as a self. To be in positive polarity you need to be what is not negative, to be in negative polarity you need to be what is not positive. In Unity you are that which emcompasses both polarities, just like the Earth is both the positive humans and a negative humans, it shies away from neither distortion but encompasses all that is. It is all joys just as all sorrows.
I think we could consider that 4D is the density the furthest from Unity. The lessons of 3D create this separation and the lessons of 5D break it down. The other densities are closer to the edges of the Octave, where Unity is either unconscious or conscious.
RE: Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages? - Infinite Unity - 06-07-2019
(06-07-2019, 06:11 PM)Minyatur Wrote:(06-07-2019, 05:23 PM)Infinite Unity Wrote:(06-07-2019, 05:01 PM)Glow Wrote: I don’t think it’s quite that simple. The illusion is separation so all actions that take selfishly or give due to perceived need to be taken from/unworthiness drive further into exploration of illusion.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.
Without illusion there is only a singularity, or singular being. With illusion there is a mirage, which is neither separation, or singularity, but unity.
Unity inherently is separation, while at the same time harmony. Units, working or being together essentially. A common goal is most often times interpreted as the coherence or causality of, what 3d entities assume is Unity.
Unity essentially means separate but connected or One.
There is One energy that can be harnassed through service to others(Unity), and from service to self(separation). It is not that these two options create the energy, but rather allow for the entity to harness it. To use it, to work with it.
To me Unity really mean allness, so it is confusing to see how it is often reffered to as unlike what it is. In the basic description of the Law of One, Unity would be this "You are every thing, every being, every emotion, every event, every situation. You are unity. You are infinity.".
The unity of sunlight moving through a prism is all the colors, green is not anymore unity than the other colors also are together. Having learned Unity is to be like the Logos, to encompass all ways of distortions that free will enables. This is why polarity is not principle of learning Unity, because polarity keeps you separate as a self. To be in positive polarity you need to be what is not negative, to be in negative polarity you need to be what is not positive. In Unity you are that which emcompasses both polarities, just like the Earth is both the positive humana and a negative humans, it shies away from neither distortion but encompasses all that is.
I think we could consider that 4D is the density the furthest from Unity. The lessons of 3D create this separation and the lessons of 5D break it down. The other densities are closer to the edges of the Octave, where Unity is either unconscious or conscious.
At the core of separation lay the heart of singularity
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