(07-08-2020, 10:55 AM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote: My only advise would be to get honest with yourself. 

(07-08-2020, 11:37 AM)Diana Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 10:55 AM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote: My only advise would be to get honest with yourself. 

In my opinion, this is the key to any sort of conscious evolution. Self-honesty is not simple, as we may all have some subconscious fragmentation, ingrained belief systems or denial based on survival. But if we are OPEN to self-honesty, and the acceptance of our own possible blockages to that end, the barriers become less rigid and are more malleable to change.

This is why I think focus on self is so important. And I don't think it is as simple as changing an attitude (or forcing an attitude change). There has to be a fundamental widening of awareness, and the only way I have found to widen awareness is to be open to change. Stagnant waters become toxic, as it has been said.

We dig our heels in sometimes, and that is a survival instinct when our world is threatened. It's an important one, and sets boundaries which help us navigate through difficult times or situations, by slowing down or stopping input and outside pressures. But a good idea is to then take a second look at things. Now that you have stopped the "movie," and you feel safer, you can, from this vantage point, take a fresh look at things. Be the observer. Step outside of self and consider self along with all the other elements involved.

(07-08-2020, 11:45 AM)Patrick Wrote:  
Also, you do not need to succeed in forgiving all.  You just have to have the sincere intent to forgive all.  Then the road to forgiveness will open up for you and you can choose to walk it.  This road will be made of all the small everyday catalysts that will slowly align with your new intent.

(07-08-2020, 12:34 PM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 11:37 AM)Diana Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 10:55 AM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote: My only advise would be to get honest with yourself. 

In my opinion, this is the key to any sort of conscious evolution. Self-honesty is not simple, as we may all have some subconscious fragmentation, ingrained belief systems or denial based on survival. But if we are OPEN to self-honesty, and the acceptance of our own possible blockages to that end, the barriers become less rigid and are more malleable to change.

This is why I think focus on self is so important. And I don't think it is as simple as changing an attitude (or forcing an attitude change). There has to be a fundamental widening of awareness, and the only way I have found to widen awareness is to be open to change. Stagnant waters become toxic, as it has been said.

We dig our heels in sometimes, and that is a survival instinct when our world is threatened. It's an important one, and sets boundaries which help us navigate through difficult times or situations, by slowing down or stopping input and outside pressures. But a good idea is to then take a second look at things. Now that you have stopped the "movie," and you feel safer, you can, from this vantage point, take a fresh look at things. Be the observer. Step outside of self and consider self along with all the other elements involved.

I am sorry, I didn’t mean that in any condescending way. I was trying to put across how I think that if we are honest with ourselves in the way of what we want and need, it may not be a time that we are meant to use in opening the heart and so comparing what we think we should be doing with what we want to be doing can bring tension.

When I think I should be doing something it makes me think I am incorrect and so I was just suggesting that by being honest with ourselves and our intentions and desires, we can evaluate if forcing a certain trait is going to do us any good.

I’m sorry if the way I have come across seems like I am saying anything is easy. It is the hardest thing to do to be honest with ourselves and I don’t mean to take away from that in the slightest.

(07-08-2020, 12:48 PM)Diana Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 12:34 PM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 11:37 AM)Diana Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 10:55 AM)TheAmbiguousSod Wrote: My only advise would be to get honest with yourself. 

In my opinion, this is the key to any sort of conscious evolution. Self-honesty is not simple, as we may all have some subconscious fragmentation, ingrained belief systems or denial based on survival. But if we are OPEN to self-honesty, and the acceptance of our own possible blockages to that end, the barriers become less rigid and are more malleable to change.

This is why I think focus on self is so important. And I don't think it is as simple as changing an attitude (or forcing an attitude change). There has to be a fundamental widening of awareness, and the only way I have found to widen awareness is to be open to change. Stagnant waters become toxic, as it has been said.

We dig our heels in sometimes, and that is a survival instinct when our world is threatened. It's an important one, and sets boundaries which help us navigate through difficult times or situations, by slowing down or stopping input and outside pressures. But a good idea is to then take a second look at things. Now that you have stopped the "movie," and you feel safer, you can, from this vantage point, take a fresh look at things. Be the observer. Step outside of self and consider self along with all the other elements involved.

I am sorry, I didn’t mean that in any condescending way. I was trying to put across how I think that if we are honest with ourselves in the way of what we want and need, it may not be a time that we are meant to use in opening the heart and so comparing what we think we should be doing with what we want to be doing can bring tension.

When I think I should be doing something it makes me think I am incorrect and so I was just suggesting that by being honest with ourselves and our intentions and desires, we can evaluate if forcing a certain trait is going to do us any good.

I’m sorry if the way I have come across seems like I am saying anything is easy. It is the hardest thing to do to be honest with ourselves and I don’t mean to take away from that in the slightest.

I in no way meant to criticize what you had said. I was agreeing with your statement about self-honesty and expanding on it. I will take responsibility for not being clear. I find this is often the case here, that my words are misinterpreted, and I continue to hone this communication skill.

(07-08-2020, 03:57 PM)Ashim Wrote: I’ll try to answer the question as simply as possible.
If unconditional love appears daunting and almost unreachable when applied to fellow humans then consider the following.
Adopt an animal, perhaps from your local shelter.
Tend to its needs, give love and care. Expect nothing in return apart from the prospect of good company and laughs.

Your new friend (cat, dog, hedgehog) will respond with utmost joy when you treat it with unconditional love. They are without sin, so it’s a bit easier than with humans. Lol!

This is one of the best exercises for learning to open the heart chakra.

This exercise rewards one with almost instantaneous feedback.

The question is: what pet/animal are you personally drawn towards?

The heart can open in many ways. There is usually either a soft or hard opening of the heart, a rush of enlightenment or a gradual progression. There can be a partial opening, one that may command attention at some later point.

(07-08-2020, 03:57 PM)Ashim Wrote: ...Adopt an animal, perhaps from your local shelter...

(07-08-2020, 05:18 PM)Patrick Wrote:

(07-08-2020, 03:57 PM)Ashim Wrote: ...Adopt an animal, perhaps from your local shelter...

Hey Ashim, it's been an extremely long time since I saw a post from you!

(07-19-2020, 06:27 AM)dexter101 Wrote: hello there everyone.
here is something from llresearch channeling Q'ou
"As a warrior of light you use no weapon but what may be called the armor of light, the sword of truth, and a wide open heart chakra, loving without stint, without expectation of return, and most of all with no judgment. It is not difficult to love negatively oriented individuals once you can connect into that portion of your deep mind which sees each person, whatever the vagaries of trouble and circumstance, as a holograph of the one infinite Creator. This entity becomes utterly essential to you, and you may pray with a full heart with this person and move from strength to strength, from learning to learning. All threat disappears, all separation vanishes."
i have developed biases and distortions over the course of this life. it is hard enough to get rid of them. but even harder when you are facing negatively polarizing indivduals every single day or worse possesed people. perhaps it is even impossible. who knows.
anyways id be really interested in how many here have actually fully opened their heart chakra?

(07-19-2020, 07:11 AM)Black Dragon Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 06:27 AM)dexter101 Wrote: hello there everyone.
here is something from llresearch channeling Q'ou
"As a warrior of light you use no weapon but what may be called the armor of light, the sword of truth, and a wide open heart chakra, loving without stint, without expectation of return, and most of all with no judgment. It is not difficult to love negatively oriented individuals once you can connect into that portion of your deep mind which sees each person, whatever the vagaries of trouble and circumstance, as a holograph of the one infinite Creator. This entity becomes utterly essential to you, and you may pray with a full heart with this person and move from strength to strength, from learning to learning. All threat disappears, all separation vanishes."
i have developed biases and distortions over the course of this life. it is hard enough to get rid of them. but even harder when you are facing negatively polarizing indivduals every single day or worse possesed people. perhaps it is even impossible. who knows.
anyways id be really interested in how many here have actually fully opened their heart chakra?

I've had sporadic openings of it in early childhood, feeling that everyone and everything deserved equal love in the grand scheme of things, even though I had people like my family that I loved more directly or were closer too in this incarnation and couldn't personally give everyone and everything that same type of love. This notion of universal love was fleeting and came in periods of clarity in very early childhood, but it did form the backbone of my distortions towards egalitarianism and fairness that would be part of my seeking later. Throughout the greater portion of my life, I maintained a philosophy that while some people were bad, I couldn't hate an actual person on a soul level, but could only hate and resent their actions or philosophies. I really didn't feel actual hatred(at least that I'd accept or admit) until my DNS phase and my shadow side started coming more to my attention.

Early in my seeking in my early 20's, I had sporadic openings again. As far as STS people and entities? I just wasn't so concerned with them or focused on them in my heart chakra openings directly, but on universal love. I focused on loving what was good, and what was distorted or ignorant but good at its core, which is most beings. I acknowledged some beings are purposefully STS on a soul level until they hit 6d(though I guess good in the grand scheme of things), and did not focus specifically on loving them, but didn't hate them, just let em' be.

You don't have to go out and bear hug an Ipissimus to open your heart chakra. Just sayin'. Also, your love from a 3d standpoint will never be 100% perfect. Love as best you can and allow your higher self and the creator to fill in the rest.

(07-19-2020, 07:51 AM)Great Central Sun Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 07:11 AM)Black Dragon Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 06:27 AM)dexter101 Wrote: hello there everyone.
here is something from llresearch channeling Q'ou
"As a warrior of light you use no weapon but what may be called the armor of light, the sword of truth, and a wide open heart chakra, loving without stint, without expectation of return, and most of all with no judgment. It is not difficult to love negatively oriented individuals once you can connect into that portion of your deep mind which sees each person, whatever the vagaries of trouble and circumstance, as a holograph of the one infinite Creator. This entity becomes utterly essential to you, and you may pray with a full heart with this person and move from strength to strength, from learning to learning. All threat disappears, all separation vanishes."
i have developed biases and distortions over the course of this life. it is hard enough to get rid of them. but even harder when you are facing negatively polarizing indivduals every single day or worse possesed people. perhaps it is even impossible. who knows.
anyways id be really interested in how many here have actually fully opened their heart chakra?

I've had sporadic openings of it in early childhood, feeling that everyone and everything deserved equal love in the grand scheme of things, even though I had people like my family that I loved more directly or were closer too in this incarnation and couldn't personally give everyone and everything that same type of love. This notion of universal love was fleeting and came in periods of clarity in very early childhood, but it did form the backbone of my distortions towards egalitarianism and fairness that would be part of my seeking later. Throughout the greater portion of my life, I maintained a philosophy that while some people were bad, I couldn't hate an actual person on a soul level, but could only hate and resent their actions or philosophies. I really didn't feel actual hatred(at least that I'd accept or admit) until my DNS phase and my shadow side started coming more to my attention.

Early in my seeking in my early 20's, I had sporadic openings again. As far as STS people and entities? I just wasn't so concerned with them or focused on them in my heart chakra openings directly, but on universal love. I focused on loving what was good, and what was distorted or ignorant but good at its core, which is most beings. I acknowledged some beings are purposefully STS on a soul level until they hit 6d(though I guess good in the grand scheme of things), and did not focus specifically on loving them, but didn't hate them, just let em' be.

You don't have to go out and bear hug an Ipissimus to open your heart chakra. Just sayin'. Also, your love from a 3d standpoint will never be 100% perfect. Love as best you can and allow your higher self and the creator to fill in the rest.

I looked up Ipissimus and got this image on Google Images. Is this accurate?

(07-19-2020, 08:13 AM)Black Dragon Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 07:51 AM)Great Central Sun Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 07:11 AM)Black Dragon Wrote:

(07-19-2020, 06:27 AM)dexter101 Wrote: hello there everyone.
here is something from llresearch channeling Q'ou
"As a warrior of light you use no weapon but what may be called the armor of light, the sword of truth, and a wide open heart chakra, loving without stint, without expectation of return, and most of all with no judgment. It is not difficult to love negatively oriented individuals once you can connect into that portion of your deep mind which sees each person, whatever the vagaries of trouble and circumstance, as a holograph of the one infinite Creator. This entity becomes utterly essential to you, and you may pray with a full heart with this person and move from strength to strength, from learning to learning. All threat disappears, all separation vanishes."
i have developed biases and distortions over the course of this life. it is hard enough to get rid of them. but even harder when you are facing negatively polarizing indivduals every single day or worse possesed people. perhaps it is even impossible. who knows.
anyways id be really interested in how many here have actually fully opened their heart chakra?

I've had sporadic openings of it in early childhood, feeling that everyone and everything deserved equal love in the grand scheme of things, even though I had people like my family that I loved more directly or were closer too in this incarnation and couldn't personally give everyone and everything that same type of love. This notion of universal love was fleeting and came in periods of clarity in very early childhood, but it did form the backbone of my distortions towards egalitarianism and fairness that would be part of my seeking later. Throughout the greater portion of my life, I maintained a philosophy that while some people were bad, I couldn't hate an actual person on a soul level, but could only hate and resent their actions or philosophies. I really didn't feel actual hatred(at least that I'd accept or admit) until my DNS phase and my shadow side started coming more to my attention.

Early in my seeking in my early 20's, I had sporadic openings again. As far as STS people and entities? I just wasn't so concerned with them or focused on them in my heart chakra openings directly, but on universal love. I focused on loving what was good, and what was distorted or ignorant but good at its core, which is most beings. I acknowledged some beings are purposefully STS on a soul level until they hit 6d(though I guess good in the grand scheme of things), and did not focus specifically on loving them, but didn't hate them, just let em' be.

You don't have to go out and bear hug an Ipissimus to open your heart chakra. Just sayin'. Also, your love from a 3d standpoint will never be 100% perfect. Love as best you can and allow your higher self and the creator to fill in the rest.

I looked up Ipissimus and got this image on Google Images. Is this accurate?

I don't know, maybe. It's pure blue energy and his expression is kinda smug. As far as I understand the definition, an Ipissimus is a dedicated STS adept.

(06-24-2020, 06:05 AM)dexter101 Wrote: i cant do it. i cant love everyone equally. i mean i might be able to respect everyone as a creator but love them? no thanks. i have had to go trough a lot of abuse in my life and no way in hell would i ever do that. why would i?
why is it that we always have to chose between two extremes in this world? the world is not just black and white there are a multitude of colors !

(06-24-2020, 06:05 AM)dexter101 Wrote: why would i?

(06-27-2020, 01:39 AM)dexter101 Wrote: my greatest fear is that once i have opened my heart chakra i will be so blinded by all the love that i will completely forget about myself and go down the road of martyrdom. i don't want want obviously ....i want the wisdom to know to take care of myself and others without being a doormat. i have read that most in the beginning of fourth density are blind to wisdom and instead centered on universal love.... i wouldn't want to end up like that.it might work there but in this world we need both wisdom and love to properly function...

Quote:1.5 Questioner: Could you give me a little more detail about your role with the Egyptians?

Ra: I am Ra. The identity of the vibration Ra is our identity. We as a group, or what you would call a social memory complex, made contact with a race of your planetary kind which you call Egyptians. Others from our density made contact at the same time in South America, and the so-called “lost cities” were their attempts to contribute to the Law of One.

We spoke to one who heard and understood and was in a position to decree the Law of One. However, the priests and peoples of that era quickly distorted our message, robbing it of the, shall we say, compassion with which unity is informed by its very nature. Since it contains all, it cannot abhor any.

Quote:66.12 Questioner: Could you tell me the other ways that the entity could seek healing?

Ra: I am Ra. Perhaps the greatest healer is within the self and may be tapped with continued meditation as we have suggested.

(07-31-2020, 12:14 PM)Jade Wrote: Secondly, I hate to break it to you, but if you want to reach fourth density positive, you better get used to and learn to enjoy being a "doormat". 4th density entities spend 97%+ of their time in service to others, without expectation of return. Much of that time is spent in service to those poor sleeping 3rd density entities who are very rarely appreciative of their efforts. The service itself is the reward, not the gratitude or transformation of the one we are serving. We only have control over our own state of gratitude and transformation, and we do that through service.

(02-01-2021, 09:55 PM)Diana Wrote: I don't see it this way (at least, the doormat idea). I don't think at all that anyone needs to be a doormat.