I did the Morning Offering and then got myself ready for the day. Today the Q’uo quote comes from March 18, 2006:
Question from A and R: A experiences visitations by a person who is not visible but whose footsteps he can hear. Can you please offer any comments and thoughts you feel might be helpful to learn more about this experience?
(Carla channeling)
We are those known to you as the principle of Q’uo. Greetings in the love and in the light of the one infinite Creator. We come to you this day as part of our service to the Creator. Thank you for requesting our presence at your circle of seeking. It is a great blessing and privilege to be so called. It has been a pleasure already to rest in the beauty and dedication and we thank you for setting aside this time for seeking the truth. As always, we would ask that you use your discrimination in listening to our thoughts. Be careful to ignore and lay aside any thoughts of ours that do not seem resonant to you. That way, we can offer our opinion without being concerned that we will infringe upon your free will or the sacredness of your evolutionary process.
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You ask this day concerning the entities involved in creating the effect of presence for the one known as A, and you wish to know how to deal with this somewhat unsettling phenomenon. Gazing at your situation we see that it falls under the general category of unknown visitors. It is more common than one would think for people living on planet Earth within incarnation to be visited by presences that they cannot explain or see. The inner planes are crowded with entities of all kinds, polarities, orientation, and description. There are points of opportunity where various types of entities can interact with incarnate beings that happen to be sensitive to finer vibrations, shall we say. And this is occurring with the one who is known as A.
There is a large category of non-polarized contacts. These involve mischievous spirits, passers-by who are basically in the position of kibitzing, looking over your shoulder as you play the game of life and other entities who desire neither to help you nor to harm you, but simply to be witness to that which is occurring with a particular entity.
Thethird category of visitation is that which could be described as negative or service-to-self oriented. The marks of the service-to-self visitor are those energies of discomfort, alienation, discouragement, and irritation. When there is no communication from a service-to-self visitor that is audible or received according to the perceptive way of the individual involved, then the negativity of the contact may be inferred from the discomfort which accompanies such contact.
It is to be remembered that the self is inviolable. There have been in your culture many frightening stories of possession of an incarnate being by those of the inner planes. Ninety-nine percent or more of the stories are heavily skewed. Because of your cultural tendency, when anything is not able to be explained by empirical data there is created in the mind of your particular culture an inborn bias against the validity of such information. Therefore, any visitation that cannot be explained by clearly observable facts will be suspect and even considered perhaps not to be happening at all. This is acceptable to us if those among your people wish to turn your backs upon felt experience. However, we would suggest that it is a more skillful response to such feelings of being accompanied to assume that in some way, shape or form you are indeed being accompanied. The question of why then becomes interesting.
Question from A and R: A experiences visitations by a person who is not visible but whose footsteps he can hear. Can you please offer any comments and thoughts you feel might be helpful to learn more about this experience? Q’uo began by saying we ask this day concerning the entities involved in creating the effect of presence for A, and we wish to know how to deal with this unsettling phenomenon, and Q’uo said as they looked at our situation they saw that it falls under the general category of unknown visitors which is more common than we would think for people living on planet Earth within our incarnation to be visited by presences that we cannot explain or see because the inner planes are crowded with entities of all kinds, and there are points of opportunity where various types of entities can interact with incarnate beings that happen to be sensitive to finer vibrations. Q’uo went on to say they observe that there are three categories of visitation which are determined by the orientation of whatever visitor is being experienced, and the first orientation is service-to-others entities that flock around us throughout the incarnation, and as our loving hearts are opened and choices are made to increase our wish to associate ourselves with such a source of Light and Love becomes larger. Q’uo continued by saying that there is a large category of non-polarized contacts, and these involve mischievous spirits who are the position of looking over our shoulder as we play the game of life, and other entities who desire neither to help us nor to harm us, but simply to be witness to that which is occurring with us. Now Q’uo said the third category of visitation is that which could be described as negative or service-to-self oriented, and the marks of the service-to-self visitor are those energies of alienation and irritation, and when there is no communication from a service-to-self visitor that is audible according to the perceptions of the individual involved, then the negativity of the contact may be inferred from the discomfort which accompanies such contact. Then Q’uo said it is to be remembered that we are inviolable, and there have been in our culture frightening stories of possession of an incarnate being by those of the inner planes, but ninety-nine percent of the stories are heavily distorted because of our culture’s tendency to have a bias against the validity of such information, so that any visitation that cannot be explained by observable facts will be suspect, and this is acceptable if our people wish to turn our backs upon the experience, but Q’uo suggested that it is a more skillful response to such feelings of being accompanied to assume that in some way we are being accompanied, so the question of why becomes interesting. On November 13, 2010, Q’uo described the nature of our game of life:
Because you are an old, experienced hand at working with the game of life now. You understand about choices. You understand about love. You understand about the hall of mirrors in which all things speak to you—people, situations and things—and you are comfortable at last in this game, and enthusiastic to play it. It is not that you have become one who controls your life. It is that you have become one who enjoys the surprises of life and who knows that even in the darkest hour, there is Light and Love aplenty for one whose mind is stayed upon the truth of Love.
Each time your heart beats and sends the blood through your veins, it beats in Love. Love is the essence of your being at all levels. Love is the health of your body, the strength of your spirit, the deepener of your emotions. Seek to love and remember to allow yourself to be loved in return. No push, no pull, but a resting, a contemplation of beauty, and a devotion; a thirst and hunger for the Creator’s presence in your life and, my brother, you will make that habit, and you will feel comfortable inside your skin at last. Ask for help. You know we are there, and you know many others are as well.
Further than this we cannot go without infringing upon the free will of the ones known as A and R. And so, we shall at this time ask for the second question. We are those of Q’uo.
Jim: A senses that this being or source is somewhat unfriendly. Please offer spiritual principles and thoughts you feel might be helpful in his determining whether he should try to communicate with this source.
We are those of Q’uo, and are aware of your query, my brothers. As this instrument is well aware, it is a delicate procedure to come into a mutually helpful contact with an unseen entity. Entities from the unseen or inner realms of your planet are many and their interactions with those who are incarnate on your planet are numerous. A large category of the interaction between spirit and flesh is the interaction of the self with the guidance system of that self. Your guidance system is, in the words of this instrument, the Holy Spirit, and in the words of the social memory complex known as Ra, the higher self. It is helpful to think in terms of the latter configuration of words in terms of determining who your guidance system really is, for your guidance system is not an entity other than yourself; rather, it is an access point into your larger self.
Youare part of a soul stream that is not tied to any particular space or time. In the metaphysical world, time/space, all things occur in a circular ubiquity, happening all at once and tending towards being harvested, in terms of any experience that one has towards the middle or the source of your incarnation, so that things that you learn in all incarnations are being harvested into the soul stream’s center. When the march that you experience now through the densities is complete, all of that harvest will be offered to the one infinite Creator. And the Creator will then have learned more about Itself than It knew before. Such is your gift to the one infinite Creator in every moment of your life as you accrete interesting information and gradually digest and understand more and more of that which you see.
However, communication with your higher self is a uniquely protected activity. It is, in fact, the only case in which we would feel quite comfortable recommending that the one known as A or the one known as R pursue the conversation that is possible with one’s guidance system. Such a conversion is occurring completely within one’s own protected heart. There is no outside interference that is possible in this communication. Opening such a communication can be somewhat difficult for those who are not entirely used to moving on instinct, intuition or insight. Avenues of direct perception are almost entirely blocked and denigrated by the values of your culture. Consequently, even those with very sensitive natures, who are aware of much more than they can explain, do not tend to feel confident about opening such a communication. Nevertheless, it is relatively easy to open such communication. It simply requires patience and persistence, once the goal of opening communications with your guidance system has been decided upon.
A senses that this being or source is somewhat unfriendly. Please offer spiritual principles and thoughts you feel might be helpful in his determining whether he should try to communicate with this source. Q’uo began by saying as Carla is aware, it is a delicate procedure to come into a mutually helpful contact with an unseen entity because entities from the inner realms of our planet are many, and their interactions with those who are incarnate on our planet are numerous, so that a large category of the interaction between spirit and flesh is the interaction of our self with the guidance system of that entity, and our guidance system is the Holy Spirit, and in the words of Ra, the higher self, so it is helpful to think in terms of the latter configuration of words in terms of determining who our guidance system really is, for our guidance system is not an entity other than our self, but it is an access point into our larger self. Q’uo went on to say we are part of a soul stream that is not tied to any particular space or time, so in the metaphysical world of time/space all things occur in a circular commonality, happening all at once and tending towards being harvested, and in terms of any experience that we have towards the source of our incarnation the things that we learn in all incarnations are being harvested into our soul stream’s center, and when the march that we experience now through the densities is complete, all of that harvest will be offered to the one infinite Creator, and the Creator will then have learned more about Itself than It knew before, and such is our gift to the one infinite Creator in every moment of our life as we gain interesting information and understand more of that which we see. Q’uo continued by saying communication with our higher self is a protected activity since it is the only case in which Q’uo would feel comfortable recommending that A or R pursue the conversation that is possible with our guidance system, so such a conversion is occurring within our protected heart, and there is no outside interference that is possible in this communication, so opening such a communication can be difficult for those of us who are not used to moving on intuition, but avenues of perception are almost entirely blocked by the values of our culture, so even those of us with sensitive natures, who are aware of more than we can explain, do not feel confident about opening such a communication, so it is easy to open such communication since it requires patience once the goal of opening communication with our guidance system has been decided upon. On December 2, 1979, Hatonn spoke of the nature of our higher self:
Your higher self, my sister, is in the eternal now and is closer to you than any physical part of your being. In this illusion you are a splinter of your eternal Spirit which has been sent into this illusion in order to learn certain lessons and to grow in spirit, and this growth is then added to the higher self, which is eternal. Thus, all that you have learned and all that you will learn are enclosed in your higher self, giving you the benefit of all of your future understanding as well as your past experience. When you are in doubt, if you will pause in meditation and consciously ask that the truth that your higher self knows be made known to you in some way and then release this request, you will find that within the next hours or days through a dream or inner certainty or vision you will be relieved of your problem either by understanding it or by its resolution.
When an energy feels inimical or uncomfortable, the marks of one’s guidance system are not present. And in such a case we would in no way advise the attempt to create a communication with such a source or entity. The reason for this is the relatively unformed nature of any entity’s personality with regard to metaphysical work. There is a very specific discipline which must be approached, grasped, invoked, and pursued before an entity is ready to begin thinking about communicating with any spirit that is perceived. The nature of the human personality is such that unless care is taken, any attempt to open communication will be difficult, faulty or even harmful to the integrated personality shell of the being attempting the opening of the communication.
The need, then, before opening communication of any kind, is to go through a lengthy process wherein an entity discovers himself, defines his nature, and explores thoroughly those principles and central themes for which he is living and for which he would die. When an entity knows himself so well that he knows the ground upon which he stands, he has then become an entity in the metaphysical world of time/space. For the first time he has achieved the discipline of a personality. He has examined the self. He is aware of what he believes; what he loves; that for which he feels most passionate; that for which he lives and that for which he would gladly lose his life if it were necessary. When an entity has come to that extreme of knowledge of self, he is then ready to have conversations with other spirits. He is then able to challenge them and to say, “If you come in the name of that for which I live and that for which I will die, then I will speak with you. If you do not, then you must go away.” And that entity will perforce need to go away if he cannot meet your challenge.
To be able to make that challenge, knowing the self thoroughly, is the work of years. And if the one known as A wishes to communicate with this entity, that work lies before him yet to do. And this in no case a thing to be taken lightly or to be done as a lark or because it might be interesting. This instrument has watched personalities disintegrate under the bludgeoning power of a careless, uncaring inner-planes entity whose delight in breaking through to the physical world was such that that entity did not care what damage it did to the personality of the being whose energies it took over. We would encourage the one known as A to be very careful and thoughtful if it is decided that communication with such an entity as the one he describes would be desirable for him.
Then Q’uo said when an energy feels uncomfortable, the marks of one’s guidance system are not present, and in such a case they would not advise our attempt to create a communication with such an entity, and the reason for this is the unformed nature of our personality with regard to metaphysical work because there is a discipline which must be pursued before we are ready to begin thinking about communicating with any spirit that is perceived because the nature of the human personality is such that unless care is taken, any attempt to open communication will be difficult to the integrated personality shell when we are attempting the opening of the communication. Then Q’uo said the need before opening communication of any kind, is to go through a lengthy process where we discover our nature and explore those principles for which we are living and for which we would die, and when we know our self so well that we know the ground upon which we stand, we have become an entity in the metaphysical world of time/space, and for the first time we have achieved the discipline of our personality, and we are aware of what we believe and that for which we live and that for which we would gladly die if it were necessary, so when we have come to that knowledge of our self, we are then ready to have conversations with other spirits, and we are able to challenge them and to say, “If you come in the name of that for which I live and that for which I will die, then I will speak with you. If you do not, then you must go away.” And it will need to go away if it cannot meet our challenge. Now Q’uo said to be able to make that challenge, knowing our self thoroughly, is the work of years, and if A wishes to communicate with this entity, that work lies before him yet to do, and this not a thing to be taken lightly since Carla has watched personalities disintegrate under the power of an uncaring inner-planes entity whose delight in breaking through to the physical world was such that that it did not care what damage it did to the personality of the being whose energies it took over, and we would encourage A to be careful if it is decided that communication with such an entity as the one he describes would be desirable for him. On July 25, 1976, Hatonn shared a spiritual definition of the physical world:
Love, my friends, is the word which created all that there is. What vibration is to the physical world, Love is to the consciousness that created the physical world. Love is all that there is and all that you see about you, day by day, are manifestations of Love. My friends, it may seem to you often that you are not looking at the manifestations of Love when you look at your relationship with someone with whom you are having difficulty, when your nation looks at other nations with whom it is having difficulty. And yet, we offer to you the precise analogy of vibration in your physical world. It is well known to your scientists that all things are made up of vibration and energy centers. Yet to you, the manifestations of vibration seem many and varied: tables and buildings and trees and human bodies. Yet all of these, my friends, are one thing: energy in motion.
May we ask if there is another query at this time? We are those of Q’uo.
Jim: Please offer any thoughts you feel might be helpful to A and R as to how they can be a helpful part of their young nephews’ spiritual growth.
We are those of Q’uo, and are aware of your query, my brother. To be a part of the good in a child’s life is a very precious gift and we salute and applaud those entities known as A and R for wishing to be a part of the spiritual development of those children with whom they are associated. Being a part of the good in a child’s life begins with that which the ones known as R and A are already doing, which is simply to love the children involved with all of their hearts and to wish them well. The atmosphere of unconditional Love is a tremendously powerful influence on a young child. In a world in which seldom does anything go unchallenged in terms of the life of a schoolchild and a child in general learning how to be a part of society, such beings as doting uncles are definitely appreciated. Be assured that those whom you love are aware of your energy and feel the sunlight of that love as warmth and healing.
When entities around children are living their lives in a spiritually oriented manner, this has a strong effect upon the children. For the children are able to see that spirituality is a normal part of a daily, everyday life, not something special for Sundays or for holidays but rather part of the routine of living. Entities who are children at this time period in your planet’s evolution are very special entities. They have come for very specific reasons into the Earth’s plane at this time. And for them to bump into those concepts of spending time in the silence each day and dedicating one’s life to service to others is a very helpful experience.
It is not necessary to preach or even to say anything about the things that one is doing. It is only necessary so to live the life that the whole life is seen as sacred. Then when entities such as your nephews come into contact with you, they experience that aura of sacredness to the Light. In a way, it is as subtle and simple as taking oneself seriously, metaphysically speaking, and creating a daily life that reflects the priorities given to the spiritual process. When an entity young in years sees a mature individual spending his free time completely on self-indulgence—food, drink, games, and so forth—an entity begins to assume that that is the sum and substance of Earthly life.
The question was: “Please offer any thoughts you feel might be helpful to A and R as to how they can be a helpful part of their young nephews’ spiritual growth.” Q’uo began by saying to be a part of the good in a child’s life is a very precious gift, and we applaud A and R for wishing to be a part of the spiritual development of those children with whom they are associated, and being a part of the good in a child’s life begins with that which R and A are already doing, which is to love the children involved with all of their hearts and to wish them well because the atmosphere of unconditional Love is a powerful influence on a young child, and in a world in which anything goes unchallenged in terms of the life of a child in general and in learning how to be a part of society, such beings as doting uncles are definitely appreciated, so be assured that those whom you love are aware of your energy and feel the sunlight of that love as warmth and healing. Q’uo went on to say when entities around children are living their lives in a spiritually oriented manner, this has a strong effect upon the children because the children are able to see that spirituality is a normal part of an everyday life, not something special for Sundays, and entities who are children at this time in our planet’s evolution are special entities since they have come for specific reasons into the Earth’s plane, and for them to look into those concepts of spending time in the silence each day and dedicating their life to service to others is a helpful experience. Now Q’uo said that it is not necessary to say anything about the things that you are doing, and it is only necessary so to live the life that is seen as sacred so that when entities such as your nephews come into contact with you, they experience that aura of sacredness to the Light, and it is as simple as taking yourself seriously, metaphysically speaking, and creating a daily life that reflects the priorities given to the spiritual process, so when a child sees a mature individual spending his free time completely on self-indulgence a child begins to assume that is the sum and substance of Earthly life. On February 4, 2007, Q’uo spoke of the value of taking yourself seriously:
It is a misapprehension that as you go deeper and become more closely allied to the Godhead principle that you lose yourself. You cannot lose yourself. You are part of the Creator. You are here to stay. Yet, in letting the boundaries drop and asking for healing and understanding, you find yourself growing in strength, in courage and in that feeling that you have in your heart that may be called respect for yourself. For you are taking yourself seriously, and you are attempting to expand the energies of this incarnation in a profitable and efficient way for the service of the one infinite Creator.
However, when a young child experiences life with one who seeks the silence daily, its vistas and its options open up. And it finds that it has a good array of things from which to choose in spending its time. It is not trapped in the world of materiality as it might be trapped if it did not know people who have refused to live their lives in the material universe entirely. As you live your life sacredly, so shall that energy shine forth for entities such as your nephews to observe. You do not have to preach, as we said before. Indeed, we would encourage you not to say anything more than just a thought here and a thought there. Entities young in years are wise in terms of observational powers. And their interests will be sparked in an organic way as things come up and as they happen to be attentive.
And notice what certain particular time there might be that is just the right time for you to offer them a seed thought. Do not feel that you must lecture or teach but rather be yourself. Keep your heart open and allow the natural radiation of Love and the Light of the one infinite Creator to radiate through you. It is a matter of continuing to be aware of the present moment as you go through your day. Bring yourself back to the awareness of that Love. Allow that Love and Light to remain in your day even when it becomes a matter of routine, of fulfilling the duties of the day. Keep moving back into that space of remembrance where you connect with the core of your being which is wholly involved in the business of sacred living.
Now Q’uo said when a child experiences life with one who seeks the silence daily its vistas open up, and it finds that it has an array of things from which to choose in spending its time since it is not trapped in the world of materiality as it might be trapped if it did not know people who have refused to live their lives in the material universe entirely, so as you live your life sacredly, so shall that energy shine forth for your nephews to observe, and we would encourage you not to say anything more than just a thought here and there because children are wise in terms of their powers of observation, and their interests will be sparked in an organic way as things come up and as they happen to be attentive. Then Q’uo said notice what time there might be that is just the right time for you to offer them a seed thought, and keep your heart open, and allow the natural radiation of the Love and the Light of the one infinite Creator to radiate through you because it is a matter of continuing to be aware of the present moment as you go through your day, so you can bring yourself back to the awareness of that Love, and allow that Love and Light to remain in your day even when it becomes a matter of fulfilling the duties of the day, so keep moving back into that space of remembrance where you connect with the core of your being which is wholly involved in the business of sacred living. Q’uo continued by saying, for you open your life up to the full potential that you have as the spark of the one infinite Creator as a part of the principle of that Creator since you are co-Creator in this universe of earth, sea, sky, and stars, so you can choose a good deal of that which occurs in your experience by focusing with dedication on those things that you feel are worthy of remembrance, and it is this dedication to right living that will inform your life and curiosity of childhood, so that the children with whom you come in contact know that they are touching into a powerfully positive energy, and the natural curiosity of childhood will open up their mind to wonder what you have, and the relationship will bloom from there in a completely organic manner. On June 18, 1985, Hatonn spoke of how we all are part of the One Creator:
The intensity of the group of three is far, far greater than the intensity of one, for you are unified, and each of you has his will turned unblinkingly towards the face of the Creator who moves across the deep. You are co-creator with the One who has been called the Ancient of Days, and you shall create your days and nights, your incarnation. We wish you the joy of this adventure and urge you both to take very seriously the choices you must make in order to become more positively polarized, and to take with utmost lightness and delicacy the carrying forth of these experiences. The use of discrimination, the use of humor, the use of the larger point of view, shall all aid the seeker and act as a kind of self-encouragement as you do seek in your part of the tunnel, in your walk towards the Light at the end, towards the Love that surrounds all, towards the life that is all creation.
We thank you for the love which informs this question and wish you every opportunity to offer Love and Light to those about you. Is there another query at this time? We are those of Q’uo.
Jim: The fourth question: R’s ex-partner has moved on and their relationship has ended. However, he remains grateful for the learning received from this relationship. He would like to know any way he can be of a metaphysical help to his ex-partner without infringing on his present life or his free will.
We are those known to you as Q’uo, and are aware of your query, my brothers. We appreciate the fastidiousness of the one known as R in asking this question. For it does not often occur to entities that those prayers and wishes for good health and good fortune that entities may offer to each other could have any possibility of being an infringement. There are indeed ways in which free will can be infringed upon by one who is supposedly simply praying, and we will attempt to describe those conditions. When an entity has been unable to release the energetic dynamic that informed a relationship that has ended, it is indeed possible to infringe upon the other entity’s free will in the process of prayer because the entity’s connection with the other entity has not been appropriately broken.
If there is any doubt in the mind of the one known as R that this energetic dynamic has not been fully severed, then we would suggest to the one known as R either that he alone or he and his previous partner together create a ceremony which states an effective and final closure to the relationship. If this is done with the ex-partner, that energetic exercise will be the complete closure. If, on the other hand, this exercise is undertaken by the self and not with the ex-partner, then we would suggest that the ritual of closure be written down, be expressed out loud by the one known as R, and when the ritual that has created full closure has then ended, that he take the piece of paper on which the ritual was written and either burn it to ashes, or bury it in the earth. If there was a difficulty in the separation, it is better to burn the paper to ashes and then blow the ashes away.
R’s ex-partner has moved on and their relationship has ended. However, he remains grateful for the learning received from this relationship. He would like to know any way he can be of a metaphysical help to his ex-partner without infringing on his present life or his free will. Q’uo began by saying we appreciate R’s care in asking this question, for it does not often occur to entities that those prayers for good health that entities may offer to each other could have any possibility of being an infringement, but there are ways in which free will can be infringed upon by one who is praying, and we will attempt to describe those conditions so that when an entity has been unable to release the energetic dynamic that formed a relationship that has ended, it is possible to infringe upon the other entity’s free will in the process of prayer because the entity’s connection with the other entity has not been appropriately broken. Q’uo went on to say if there is doubt in the mind of R that this energetic dynamic has not been fully severed, then we would suggest to R either that he alone or he and his previous partner create a ceremony which states a final closure to the relationship, and if this is done with the ex-partner, that energetic exercise will be complete closure, but if this exercise is undertaken by the self and not with the ex-partner, then we would suggest that the ritual of closure be written down, be expressed out loud by R, and when the ritual that has created full closure has ended, that he take the piece of paper on which the ritual was written and either burn it to ashes, or bury it in the earth because if there was a difficulty in the separation, it is better to burn the paper to ashes and then blow the ashes away. On January 23, 2006, Q’uo spoke of how we can achieve complete closure from childhood difficulties:
You may find it helpful to move through early childhood memories with a therapist who is not only fond of you but also trained to guide you through discussion of situations that may be difficult for you to face. This is an issue that is entirely for you to consider. We are not encouraging you to do this. We are saying that you might find complete closure with some of this early childhood material to be helpful in freeing you from some of the strictures within your energy body that you are now experiencing.
We believe the only thought that you need, to bring you at last into a comfortable growth environment within your own inner sanctum, is trust and faith in yourself. As you seek to know more and more who you are, you are going to find that you are discovering the sacred nature of your true self. More and more you are going to be finding reasons to be able to forgive yourself.
The process of change involves discomfort. And the dynamic of two souls who are attempting to learn together creates many opportunities for growth. Consequently, it is very common in relationships for two entities growing together to experience a good deal of discomfort. This is not because there is incompatibility but rather because of the inevitable effect of spiritual beings learning together. The effect of two such powerful beings, striving together to learn, is that effect which causes each entity to become a mirror for the other entity, so that all of those things which you did not wish to see in yourself, your partner has kindly offered you a mirror so that you may see better. This is seemingly a difficulty, looked at from the spiritual point of view. For in order to enter the open heart, every part of the self that has not yet been loved, accepted and blessed by the self must be brought before the self so that you can do the work of loving your entire self, including that part of your shadow side which does not seem so attractive.
Q’uo went on to say if there were no difficulty in the separation, but it was agreed upon by both that it was time for the separation so that there are no hard feelings involved, then it is better to give that relationship back to the earth, and that would be the situation in which we would suggest burying the piece of paper on which the ritual of closure was written, but in either case, it is well to be sure that there is energetic closure before one begins an intentional program of prayers or good wishes for a beloved entity, so we salute the loving heart of R in asking this question because it is well to realize that all entities with whom one has come into contact in a deep way in an incarnation are those entities who have come there as Ray says, perhaps there was pain because of such a relationship, and this is often the case with any two entities that spend deep time together. Q’uo went on to say the process of change involves discomfort, and the dynamic of two souls who are attempting to learn together creates opportunities for growth, so that it is common in relationships for two entities growing together to experience a good deal of discomfort, but this is not because there is incompatibility but because of the two powerful beings, striving together to learn, is that effect which causes each entity to become a mirror for the other entity, so that all of those things which you did not wish to see in yourself, your partner has offered you a mirror so that you may see better which is a difficulty from the spiritual point of view, for in order to enter the open heart, every part of the self that has not yet been loved and accepted by the self must be brought before the self so that you can do the work of loving your self, including that part of your shadow side which does not seem so attractive. Q’uo continued by saying once the work has been done to sever any lingering energetic dynamic between two people, it is perfectly acceptable to offer prayers at any time for an entity because you are offering prayers to the higher self of that entity rather than to that entity, and that higher self will direct that loving energy where it needs to go or will lovingly set it aside if it is inappropriate as long as there is not an adhesion of energy between two people this is the spiritual rule that manifests. In 36.7, Ra gave the basic definition of our higher self:
Questioner: In that case my higher self would, shall we say, have a very large advantage in knowing precisely what was needed since it would know what… as far as I am concerned, what was going to happen. Is this correct?
Ra: I am Ra. This is incorrect, in that this would be an abrogation of free will. The higher self aspect is aware of the lessons learned through the sixth density. The progress rate is fairly well understood. The choices which must be made to achieve the higher self as it is are in the provenance of the mind/body/spirit complex itself.
Thus the higher self is like the map in which the destination is known; the roads are very well known, these roads being designed by intelligent infinity working through intelligent energy. However, the higher self aspect can program only for the lessons and certain predisposing limitations if it wishes. The remainder is completely the free choice of each entity. There is the perfect balance between the known and the unknown.
We find that we have time and this instrument has energy enough for one more query. Is there another query? We are those of Q’uo.
[No further queries.]
We are those of Q’uo, and as we hear through this instrument’s ears that there are no questions, we believe that we have exhausted the questions for this session. May we say what a pleasure it has been. Again we ask that you be careful. Think about that which we say. If there is a false note anywhere, please disregard this information, for we would not wish to be a stumbling block in your way. We are those of Q’uo. We leave you in the love and in the light of the one infinite Creator. Adonai.
This morning I went across the road to my neighbor’s yard and used my hedgeclippers to cut down their tall grasses that are dead so that the new grasses that have just begun to sprout can have room and light to grow. I raked up eight garbage cans full of the grasses and put them on the street for yard waste pickup tomorrow morning
This afternoon I took a friend to the Village Anchor Restaurant for lunch, and then we took a walk through walking trail across the street from the Village Anchor.
From A Book of Days, channeled by Carla L. Rueckert:
April 2
Give Thanks!
I am of the consciousness of the Most High. I greet you in the realization of unconditional Love, the consciousness of the Christ.
The morning has come again. For what can you give thanks? If there is no sunshine to praise, then praise the clouds and rain.
If you cannot give thanksgiving for the plenteousness of water and the shade of the trees in an oasis, give thanksgiving instead to the clean, clear, lucid and deep desert wherein may be found plain answers and the untangling of many a mystery. If you seem tossed about on the stormy ocean and find that you cannot praise this condition, praise instead the endlessness of that ocean and the infinity and freedom of the water.
For all things made by the Creator are equally to be praised. All moods, feelings and thoughts of those conscious beings whom He made are equally worthy.
Therefore, in whatever condition you find yourself, give thanks. But chiefly give thanks for the Creator which has made all things. For in all things lies Love; the Love of the consciousness of wholeness, healing and peace which is the gift in embodiment of Jesus the Christ.
May you feel blessed regardless of circumstance, because you are a witness to the creation. You may not understand it, but you may praise it in faith and hope, and in that spirit shall you be consoled.
We leave you in the peace and consolation of the spirit of unconditional and infinite love, now and ever. Amen.
I said the prayer at the Gaia Meditation tonight:
We come in the name of love and open our hearts, minds, and souls to send love, light, and healing energy to Mother Earth as she brings forth a new Earth in the fourth density. We ask that the infinite love, light, and healing energy of the One Infinite Creator heal the hearts of all souls in pain on Earth tonight. May all souls on Earth feel our love, light, and healing energy in their hearts, their minds, and their souls. Amen.
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