08-08-2014, 01:12 PM
i love my girlfriend very much she loves me we have plans for our entire lifes together we are happy with eachother and sososos in love and have been talking for 11 months and been together a while and plan to move into a place together in about 9 months and she recently well i told her to block a guy on facebook she said she did but when i looked she didnt and i blocked him and i over looked that, then this is going to sound weird but i just have to say it how it was so i can get advice, we have had sex together but recently we were about too and she said she was not in the mood and i said ok thats fine and there usually some excuse as to why she doesnt want to so i brought it up and she cried and then she said that she had sex with 2 other guys b4 me and i know this and we have had sex but she made a promise to her mom and to god that she would wait until she is married or found the right one or legally an adult or sumthing and then i said im cool with that i will wait buuut now that i think about it that means every single time i asked her why she didnt want to do it she lied to me...every time i asked here and she say some reason and id say are you sure thats why? and she wud say yes, there fore lying to me every time. she said she felt like i wud think she is stupid if she told me truth and im a really good guy obviously i wudnt and i think she knos that and i treat her so good AND well i just want to know if i should break up with her because she lied to me because it makes me feel like if she ever did somthing bad to me like flirted with another guy or cheated on me or sumthing she wud jus lie to me and i wud never kno. i dont think she wud ever do that but now that i see she has lied its hard for me to trust her to not lie again and trust is like number 1 to me...so i dont know what to do.. i mean we r both madly in love and want our lifes together and its jus i dont want her to lie about anything to me and idk if i can trust her not to now.. what should i do??? please good honest advice will be sooo appriciated thank you