07-23-2017, 10:18 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-23-2017, 10:22 PM by AnthroHeart.)
I'm a little upset now, but I could be forgiving.
My mom who I usually have problems with betrayed my trust.
I had $2000 that I deposited into her account so she could use her PayPal for my fursuit.
She paid $1000 with my money a few months ago a down payment for my costume.
The fursuit is nearly ready, but instead of paying the rest of the balance with the remaining $1000, she takes it and puts it into a CD (certificate of deposit) to help her own credit.
Now I have to come up with another $1000 that she took and have my other friend pay the remaining balance.
I do home help for her. She lives with me and pays no rent. I even got a joint account so that the money I make from helping her at home would go into that account.
And every month she transfers all of it out of that account into her own account that I can't touch. So for little over 2 years she's gotten over $20,000 from my work, and hasn't given me a dollar out of it.
I was thinking of dividing it so that 50% would go into my own account, and the remaining 50% would go into the joint account. I have no real income because she keeps it all, and yet still demands that I work for her. So if I took 50% I am entitled to anyway, it would give me like $200 extra, which would help since I have no income.
She says she deserves all of it because I had like $50,000 in the bank.
I don't know if I should do the 50% thing and keep the $200, which means she won't get that.
Or should I forgive her for taking my $1000 and betraying my trust?
I can forgive her. She says that the CD will pay out in a year. But the fursuit is going to be ready like in a week, which I will have to tap into my savings to pay for.
But I can't trust that she would pay me back in a year.
If I keep the 50%, it will just make her angry. If I am to be service to others, I don't know what I should do. If I forgive her, is that sending a message that she can walk all over me?
She's done lots of other things to me. I made a list of 17 things, and she finds an excuse for each one.
Technically it's my money, but I've let her have all of it for the past 2 years, because I am nice. Although I do get angry with her at times.
I let her live here rent free for the last 10+ years because before I was making $4000/month. But now I'm making nothing. And still she wants to take and not let me have any of my own money.
I want to positively polarize in this test. I could go either way. Though she has broken my trust many times in the past.
I'm watching old episodes of Highway to Heaven, and it's making me feel more loving. So I want to do what is loving. If I keep 50%, it will put a lot of pressure on her. She owes a bunch of companies for clothing and jewelry and perfume and angel statues that she bought.
My mom who I usually have problems with betrayed my trust.
I had $2000 that I deposited into her account so she could use her PayPal for my fursuit.
She paid $1000 with my money a few months ago a down payment for my costume.
The fursuit is nearly ready, but instead of paying the rest of the balance with the remaining $1000, she takes it and puts it into a CD (certificate of deposit) to help her own credit.
Now I have to come up with another $1000 that she took and have my other friend pay the remaining balance.
I do home help for her. She lives with me and pays no rent. I even got a joint account so that the money I make from helping her at home would go into that account.
And every month she transfers all of it out of that account into her own account that I can't touch. So for little over 2 years she's gotten over $20,000 from my work, and hasn't given me a dollar out of it.
I was thinking of dividing it so that 50% would go into my own account, and the remaining 50% would go into the joint account. I have no real income because she keeps it all, and yet still demands that I work for her. So if I took 50% I am entitled to anyway, it would give me like $200 extra, which would help since I have no income.
She says she deserves all of it because I had like $50,000 in the bank.
I don't know if I should do the 50% thing and keep the $200, which means she won't get that.
Or should I forgive her for taking my $1000 and betraying my trust?
I can forgive her. She says that the CD will pay out in a year. But the fursuit is going to be ready like in a week, which I will have to tap into my savings to pay for.
But I can't trust that she would pay me back in a year.
If I keep the 50%, it will just make her angry. If I am to be service to others, I don't know what I should do. If I forgive her, is that sending a message that she can walk all over me?
She's done lots of other things to me. I made a list of 17 things, and she finds an excuse for each one.
Technically it's my money, but I've let her have all of it for the past 2 years, because I am nice. Although I do get angry with her at times.
I let her live here rent free for the last 10+ years because before I was making $4000/month. But now I'm making nothing. And still she wants to take and not let me have any of my own money.
I want to positively polarize in this test. I could go either way. Though she has broken my trust many times in the past.
I'm watching old episodes of Highway to Heaven, and it's making me feel more loving. So I want to do what is loving. If I keep 50%, it will put a lot of pressure on her. She owes a bunch of companies for clothing and jewelry and perfume and angel statues that she bought.