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02-22-2018, 04:07 PM
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(This post was last modified: 03-04-2018, 07:39 AM by Nicholas.
Edit Reason: Took out a couple of charged words when sharing my vegan festival experience. They were not accurate descriptors but more a dramatisation.
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(09-23-2017, 04:38 PM)Nicholas Wrote:(09-20-2017, 02:56 PM)Diana Wrote: It boggles my mind that anyone could care more about their personal free will (to choose torture and death) over compassion. (09-24-2017, 10:04 AM)Bring4th_Jade Wrote: Wait Nick - you're saying that consumers don't have free will with what they purchase to consume? I mean, I understand on one level that advertising subverts free will... but every day I think about where my money is being spent and what energies it is contributing to. It's not possible to be ENTIRELY ethical with consumption of commodities, but it's possible to be much, much more ethical with consumption of commodities than all of us are currently being, and I think we all should make this effort as an exercise with the Transformation of the Mind. This has taken me a long time to respond to. Initially when I first read this I simply rolled my eyes. I could not get past this attitude in my head of "here come the Ra quotes!". For ages I had the desire to dish out a few Ra quotes of my own. I had visions of creating 52 of my favourite Ra quotes, printing them out and flipping 7 of them randomly face up. From there I could present an antithesis with no trouble at all. What stopped me is because I care like you care. It's a tragic irony to realise that Diane, yourself and I, as well as others are coming from the same fertile desire to protect. I respond now because I believe I have a better understanding on this free will vs compassion divide. What initially stimulated me was the bracketed "to choose torture and death" comment. There is so much more going on underneath the surface of what we reveal to each other. That stimulating comment reminded me very much of how my mother used to talk. A guilt inducing comment aimed at orienting my behaviour to a more acceptable configuration. This is how compassion is perverted into a strategy, and why I am sensitive to such terms. I obviously cannot speak as to why Diane used such a term. But I can surely reveal why It was personally stimulating for me. [Deleted a passage that encourages comparative thinking by using the word Vegans in reference to individuals] I went to a Vegan festival today and bought some natural, "activated carbon" toothpaste. I mentioned how important to me it was to start taking care of the teeth that remained in my mouth. A lady next to me said. "It's good for the planet, too". And then the guy selling me this lovely product adds "Yes the bottles are recycled glass" Now the little wolf in me had all sorts of imaginary comments. First was "Did I ask for your input here!?" and then I thought about the guy "Why can't you look at me when serving?" I quickly processed it though when I realised it was just 2 like minded folks communing. We are all vulnerable at heart and that's why we group together in communities. Perhaps it was because I am a white male with broad shoulders? Who knows. I know one thing though. I missed the opportunity to express to them that I felt lonely in that moment and had just as much a need for community as they do. Oh well.
03-04-2018, 11:17 AM
I want to try to understand but I guess I'm confused. What happened with the recycled glass comment? Was this person insulting you? Usually vegan festivals bring out a lot of environmentalists, so using recycled glass would be a benefit to purchasing the product for someone who is oriented towards creating less waste on this planet. Many people would see the product as having more value being made with recycled packaging. Why do you believe there was a judgement on you based upon race?
03-04-2018, 12:54 PM
(03-03-2018, 08:30 PM)Nicholas Wrote: I respond now because I believe I have a better understanding on this free will vs compassion divide. What initially stimulated me was the bracketed "to choose torture and death" comment. There is so much more going on underneath the surface of what we reveal to each other. That stimulating comment reminded me very much of how my mother used to talk. A guilt inducing comment aimed at orienting my behaviour to a more acceptable configuration. This is how compassion is perverted into a strategy, and why I am sensitive to such terms. I obviously cannot speak as to why Diane used such a term. But I can surely reveal why It was personally stimulating for me. From my point of view, it's a good thing that uncomfortable memories surfaced for you. This, in my opinion, is a message, and it has value for you. I don't mean to sound didactic, or that I know everything, or imply it has anything to do with what you eat. I just think feelings like these, from the subconscious or childhood, have meaning. I don't remember why I made that comment. It was part of a long conversation and taken out of context. (03-03-2018, 08:30 PM)Nicholas Wrote: I went to a Vegan festival today and bought some natural, "activated carbon" toothpaste. I mentioned how important to me it was to start taking care of the teeth that remained in my mouth. A lady next to me said. "It's good for the planet, too". And then the guy selling me this lovely product adds "Yes the bottles are recycled glass" It is very difficult to feel alone when with people. But it does seem to me you have some responsibility in this feeling. It sounds like you rejected them, not they rejected you. But maybe it wasn't that simple. It is challenging to convey entire meaning with words on a page. I'm sorry for your loneliness. In fact, my heart goes out to all who suffer.
03-05-2018, 03:46 PM
(03-04-2018, 11:17 AM)Bring4th_Jade Wrote: I want to try to understand but I guess I'm confused. What happened with the recycled glass comment? Was this person insulting you? No not at all. It was more my paranoid thinking! It was a warm and friendly event and Heidi I are going to another one in 2 Saturdays time. Heidi's cousin and her husband sing at these events (husband on guitar), so we will be travelling further afield to go with them. The scenario just stimulated in me a pain that has yet to be healed, that's all. My speculating was pure projection on my part Diane has it exactly right. There is a sense of loneliness within me. A desire for a deeper connection with other humans in general. Which I translate as a need for community going unmet. This is an old, old feeling that has resurfaced and this was a just a stimulus. It was actually a missed opportunity for me to become emotionally naked and express what I was feeling and needing in relation to the moment. I felt left out of the conversation that's all. However I did have a wonderful conversation with Catherine's husband, Deitmar. About 45 minutes of one 2 one while we listened to other performers on the stage. He is a very laid back, gentle soul. Familiar with the LOO as well! (03-04-2018, 11:17 AM)Bring4th_Jade Wrote: Usually vegan festivals bring out a lot of environmentalists, so using recycled glass would be a benefit to purchasing the product for someone who is oriented towards creating less waste on this planet. Many people would see the product as having more value being made with recycled packaging. Why do you believe there was a judgement on you based upon race? Again, no objective evidence at all. Looking back I think it was more to do with my apprehension of environmentalists and the problematic nature of "identity politics". The activism itself is to be honoured, but what energy is it coming out of? This very "fear of possession", or suspicion, is enough to block out my own attempt to communicate authentically. Rather ironic come to think of it. :-/
03-11-2018, 03:38 PM
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03-24-2018, 02:50 PM
It's been almost 4 months since I went on a vegan diet. I wanted to say thanks to you all for the information and awareness that you are spreading. Cheers!
03-26-2018, 02:46 PM
03-26-2018, 02:47 PM
Cows are a symbol of devotion.
I'm becoming a vegetarian. Maybe later a vegan. I started yesterday.
03-26-2018, 02:47 PM
03-28-2018, 05:04 PM
By going vegan, America could feed an additional 390 million people, study suggests
Quote:Here's what they found:
04-06-2018, 10:03 AM
I liked what he said about when you make a decision, the mind will change to accommodate that.
(04-06-2018, 10:03 AM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote: I liked what he said about when you make a decision, the mind will change to accommodate that. Me too. I think it's got to do with dissolving, or reducing, the cognitive dissonance between what we know, and what we feel - or, in other words, what our minds know, and what our hearts know.
04-10-2018, 03:38 AM
04-20-2018, 03:22 AM
Also interesting/relevant in this context: Aftershock - Confronting Trauma in a Violent World: A Guide for Activists and Their Allies -`ღ´-
06-01-2018, 04:00 AM
Avoiding meat and dairy is ‘single biggest way’ to reduce your impact on Earth
Quote:Biggest analysis to date reveals huge footprint of livestock - it provides just 18% of calories but takes up 83% of farmland (01-14-2018, 03:48 PM)Sprout Wrote:(01-14-2018, 01:26 PM)Bring4th_Jade Wrote: I have been intimately cohabitating with a chicken (rooster) in my house for over four months now. I also have 7 more outside. Tada. Also some photos I took of animals. A slug and a snail. A pigeon bathing in sunlight. A mom and a baby slug.
06-03-2018, 06:48 AM
(06-03-2018, 03:59 AM)Papercut Wrote: Tada. Lovely crow and pics. Well done! As the topic of B12 came up a while ago, thought some might be interested to read this: Vitamin B12 Deficiency Test Quote:What types of B12 deficiency test are there? How are they carried out? How to diagnose a vitamin B12 deficiency through use of a B12 deficiency test.
06-07-2018, 08:33 AM
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(06-03-2018, 06:48 AM)Nía Wrote:(06-03-2018, 03:59 AM)Papercut Wrote: Tada. I did a blood test and oh my god you we're right. I was told immediately that I needed b12 and iron. :-/
06-07-2018, 11:28 AM
(06-07-2018, 08:33 AM)blossom Wrote: I did a blood test and oh my god you we're right. I was told immediately that I needed b12 and iron. :-/ Wow, glad you had it tested! Hope your levels will soon be up to normal again. And, in case anyone (who's interested) missed it: Would you go vegan to save the planet? Researchers say it might be our best option
06-16-2018, 10:57 AM
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