Human sexuality has lost all meaning to me.

[Adonai One]

An update to this thread...

I looked into my current probability vortexes through channeling and there is a 99.9% chance that I will have a marriage with the opposite sex. That's a pretty fixed future it seems. Haha.

Accounting for that there is only a 4% or so chance another woman moves into the relationship. Which isn't highly unlikely by most standards.

Vice-versa there is a less than .01% chance that a man moves into the relationship.

There is a .3% chance in total that I have a relationship that is 4 people altogether.

Anyways, this adds some context. lol

[garyvincent]

"An intent of acceptance without reservation.

Because together, that which at one point seemed impossible to both, now not only seems possible but most probable."

jeremy,

i love those lines.
classically journeyed
... experienced by you
desired by me

hope u don't mind
the reading made me smile
'n i went into play mode

thank you
... it's been a while.

an intent
of acceptance
without reservation

for together
that
which at one point
seemed impossible
to both

Now
not only
seems possible
but
most probable

[caycegal]

I agree in principle but.............

Having lived through many experiences, I discovered that for me in this physical life monogamy works best.

For others, who knows?

Edgar Cayce did say that monogamy is the best plan (for this life) also.

Where I am now:

There are only 2 rules that are absolute, the 2 rules that Jesus taught:

1. Love God with all your heart and mind and spirit. (Pretty vague, right? But it does call for commitment to an ideal.)
2. Love your neighbor as yourself. (Most of us have at least a fairly good idea of what this one means.)

Oh, one more thing. "Sex" can refer to acts and behavior in the physical. It can also refer to energy, attraction, magnetism, etc. I find many people magnetically fascinating, yet have not the slightest desire to convert that attraction into some kind of sexual behavior.

P.S. When I was much younger one of my biggest "problems" was my impatience - why couldn't I have what others seemed to have - a great relationship? The reason why was that I wasn't ready, I didn't know how, and I had to live through many "mistakes" in order to learn and to become the person who would be a match for my ideal lover - a match for the someone who would make my heart sing.

[AnthroHeart]

I get sexual thoughts sometimes when I think of anthros, particularly wolfy anthros. But human sexuality I'm not into anymore. Just don't have interest in it. So it seems I'll never fulfill my fantasies, unless I still have the same interest in a higher density or when I cross over into time/space. Which I hear is like waking up from a dream, so this life will probably fade in importance compared with the greater picture, the larger life that I'll be in. The things I find so important in this life will probably have no meaning, especially when I recall all of my past lives. Whose to say if I even knew about anthros in my past lives. It's cause of the artists alive today which draw such art that I can appreciate them. In the decades or centuries before, the concept of anthros did not exist in the same cartoony way that it does today. Sure there were animal headed gods, but they aren't the cartoony anthro that I like in the same way.

[Jeremy]

Maybe this is one of those cases where ignorance is bliss because this is the longest I have been without sex since I started having sex at 16 and I have to make sure I don't stare at women like objects of this voracious desire lol

[AnthroHeart]

You're right ignorance is bliss. In a way I'm glad I don't know what it's like to get it on with an anthro being. Probably not what I expect.

[xise]

I think it's important to unlock your sexual desire for the other human beings. It's part of a balanced and open orange ray.

[Turtle]

I think it's important to unlock your sexual desire for the other human beings. It's part of a balanced and open orange ray.

Of course it is important, it is a part of your body and energy system. How you channel that energy is totally up to each individual.

[Plenum]

I think it's important to unlock your sexual desire for the other human beings. It's part of a balanced and open orange ray.

Of course it is important, it is a part of your body and energy system. How you channel that energy is totally up to each individual.

yep

[xise]

I think it's important to unlock your sexual desire for the other human beings. It's part of a balanced and open orange ray.

Of course it is important, it is a part of your body and energy system. How you channel that energy is totally up to each individual.

yep

Totally agree! (One example that comes to mind is the Yogi who decides to practice celibacy and channels the energy upward).

That being said, the one area of Ra that resonates heavily is the optional exploration of sacred sexuality...seems like a great way to evolve and have fun at the same time

[reeay]

Geminiwolf- how do you channel that energy when you are thinking anthros?

[Unbound]

Just another thought came to be on this subject. The thread seems to be about sexuality however what most people seem to actually be talking about is sexual preference. Sexuality, imo, is something that is deeper than the preferences of humans alone, but is the energy which feeds that desire.

The preferences are constructions of the mind and I believe at least partially arise from the relationship one has both with oneself and the many aspects of the environment, including other people and objects, in relation to how they view the sexual concept and "act" itself.

Now, love with sexuality is a different thing. The only reason I say this is from personal experience, there is a difference between loving someone or something, and being in love with them. Being in love is different because there is a strange stability and peace within it. Suddenly what was chaotic and aimless begins to have focus, connectivity, real passion and loving emotion. Being in love, in regards to loving, is the difference between taking a bath and giving other people baths.

When you are in love, you have immersed yourself in it rather than simply offering it or using it. This yields an entirely different experience, in my experience.

I am not saying one or the other is better or more preferable (although like all experiences and choices it will change the path you are on) but rather simply that there is a difference in experience and I feel it is worthwhile to explore both if you are able, although that is up to each themselves, it helps you to know yourself in a great degree.

[AnthroHeart]

Geminiwolf- how do you channel that energy when you are thinking anthros?

Generally through masturbation. I don't make efficient use of the catalyst. There was a time when I wasn't allowing myself to orgasm when I would masturbate, and I ended up with a serious case of blue balls that actually hurt. I haven't been the same since with my orgasms, and they aren't as pleasurable as they used to be.

[Infinite Unity]

I feel as If I am a wanderer, and the human sexualicism is one of the most attractive qualities to 3d for me. Untypicially I go against the grain as most wanderers won't be mating. However one of my prime goals/distortions this time around, was a life partner and two children. So the creation is truly infinite and as We said himself, that a lot of the discussions or answers were very broad. And very generalistic. Free will being paramount, then you can see how spice is the spice to life lol.

[BlatzAdict]

love is cheap in this world, because people judge more with their eyes than their hearts.

[Infinite Unity]

I understand that comment blatz. I often find myself asking is that all you see in them? And it will push me to push past these judgements based on sexual magnetism. I am a married and devoted man.

[Agua del Cielo]

Dear Adonai one,dear fellow seekers,
I would like to offer my thoughts and experiences on this matter. Please discard any thought that doesnt apply to you or doesnt ring true!

I must admit, that I find the discussion a little bit too technical, leaving outthe emotional aspects, which are, in my opinion, the very core.

In my experience, comitting to a realationship will leadone sooner orlater ( usually sooner) to ones childhood issues withrealationships. The more comitted and deeper the relationship, the deeper the issues, that arise.
Adding sexuality to the relationship will deeply "enhance" this " healing process" (which in fact it is, I would say).
A sexual encounter will open up ones heart considerably, even if its a casual encounter, much more in a comitted relationship, thus bringing more emotional issues to the surface.
It has been talked about red- ray issues for example. What would be a red-ray issue? It would be for example the experience of being sexually abused in early childhood. In such an experience the pain on a soul level is beyond all imagination and unbearable. The fear of death would be overwhelming since the enrgy of the experience would not be "survivable" by the child or baby. It would simply result in the end of the incarnation.
As soon as one is zruly comitted to relationship, this fear will knock on ones door. Maybe not consciously, but somewhere down below.
What would be a orange-ray issue? It could be for example the experience of having no contact to the beings in ones surrounding. This could stem from parents who are not really present, who dont have an open heart, who are not really able to care. Sounds familiar?
This, on the deepest level, results in a feeling of complete "contact-less-ness", having no contact at all to nothing at all. (Remember, we re coming out of a surrounding where we are connected with everything, pre-birth).
This was the most frightening, painful and unbearable enrgy I ever experienced in my healing process.

What could be a yellow-ray issue? It could be jealousy for example. The experience that we would be neglected or even abondoned because the would be a new baby in the family or whatever.
For a lot of people, this would be a serious threat. Since one doesnt receive enough care and love anyway, then one loses that little bit also. The love bonding between mother and child is the only thing which insures ones survival as a child.

I think, those are some of the issues, one has to face in a truly deep relationship. These are no technical issues, these are serious emotional issues which might bring one undoubtedly to ones present limit.
I think this is thevery core of the avoidance of relationship or close relationship.

I honestly think, and there is no offense intended, that most poly-multi-whatever models ofrelationships are mostly a result of avoiding all these issues and giving it a " spiritual appeareance".
There might be ( but I think very rare) human beings which honestly went through all those emotions and are willing to go through even more heavy emotions in reltionships with multiple partners.

I would assume however, for the majority it is a means of avoiding all this.

Having said that, It is in my experience absolutely possible to have a seriously comitted relationship with a steady partner and still be free to love many other human beings.
Not in an romantic way but on a "true love level". There would be a lot of jealousy issues but in my experience it is entirely possible.

All of this might not be true for you, Adonai One, but it is my experience since I ve been in the "relationship business".