Singles / Dating

[Karl]

I like women who look good naked.

[falcor]

way to keep it real karl!

if my twinflame is anything like me. shes definitely looking for me....and struggling to find meaningful relationships with people who arent awake.

oh yea, and shes probably a little bit embarassed...... like me...... to come out and admit that she's actually looking for me. haha

i put my calling out to the universe quite a while back. i still continue to put the energy out there, while trying to remain unattached. its not always easy. i get the feeling shes a bit older than me, im in my late 20s..... going on 50 or maybe 15? depends on the day. lol

[Meerie]

going on 50? who knows ...
my friend met his twinflame, he is early thirties and she almost 50.
what is even more funny, he thought he was gay! until he met her. They now moved in together.
He says he knows more couplings of that kind, with the woman being much older. He thinks it has to do with men being so stupid and immature and needing a woman to show them the way.

(I get a kick out of him going on one of his rants against his own gender, I admit )

[Ankh]

He says he knows more couplings of that kind, with the woman being much older.

Me too!

[Meerie]

Apparently, women more than 10 years older than the man are called pumas, more than 20 years cougars..

Berlusconis new girlfriend is almost 50 years younger than him. I wonder if we will ever see a constellation like that, the other way round?

[Spaced]

Apparently, women more than 10 years older than the man are called pumas, more than 20 years cougars..

Berlusconis new girlfriend is almost 50 years younger than him. I wonder if we will ever see a constellation like that, the other way round?

usually people call them pigs lol

[reeay]

Berlusconi looks like he's been fixed up by a mortician.. he's actually a zombie

[Monica]

I like women who look good naked.

That narrows it down a bit.

[reeay]

I like women who look good naked.

yes but will they think you look good naked?

[Phoenix]

I like women who look good naked.

I can subtly make my point with these brilliant lyrics, the 'you' in the first line is obviously imaginary attractive girl:

An eskimo showed me a movie
He'd recently taken of you
The poor man could hardly stop shivering,
His lips and his fingers were blue
I suppose that he froze, when the wind took your clothes
And I guess he just never got warm
But you stand there so nice, in your blizzard of ice
O please let me, come into, the storm. - Leonard Cohen

[Plenum]

interesting article on niche dating websites.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/28/health/28dating.html

like seeks like?

[GentleReckoning]

Hello. I'm male and I'm attracted to beautiful women.

Oh horror!

[Cyan]

IF you and your ancestors werent, we'd all be that much uglier.

Funny that people seem to think that "evolution" means that "unfit people dont reproduce" it doesnt, it simply means that "unfit people" (how ever fitness is decided is a matter of the soc mem complex, ours seems to, for example, think that murderes and schisophrenics are less fit people than say, presidents and doctors, but to each their own) reproduce LESS but not "not at all".

That is, in short, people who are very "attractive" to the soc mem complex in question have 10 kids while "unfit" have 1-3. Anyway. ITs nice that you like beauty, its even nicer that you admit beauty is subjective.

[Confused]

yes but will they think you look good naked?

This individual is an upcoming protagonist (or Hero) in Indian movies and is considered to have one of the best bodies in the Indian movie industry. He started martial arts training from a very young age and has a very spiritual outlook towards life and his fitness regimen. Many females do fancy him naked, I guess :p

If I had a wife or girlfriend, I would have been extremely uncomfortable if they were to meet him, somewhere, at like a party, etc

Paradoxically, my negative body self-image, low self-esteem, shame over worldly standing, and deep guilt over my past deeds has made sure that I have had no meaningful relationships with the opposite sex, so far. At times, it is really frustrating. But, what I put out is what I got from the universe, I guess. Anyway, enjoy: Presenting Vidyut Jamwal


Image Source: http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-as...7407_n.jpg

Trailer of Vidyut's yet to be released action movie (Indian Bollywood), below. I found his hard work and his great skill saturating and shining, in the trailer. When someone works hard, it really shows!


Interview covering Vidyut's spiritual inclinations:
Vidyut Jamwal believes in the power of positive energy

An excerpt from the above attached interview --

"I don't really believe in God as such. I believe in the power of the universe, and more so in the power of positive energy. All of us are surrounded by universal energy. I don't recite any prayers, but I do believe in giving thanks to the universe. I give thanks for all that I have received on a daily basis and to every cell in my body."

Wow! Ra would definitely be pleased with such an attitude. Lol..but I am the opposite May be I could draw inspiration from Vidyut's attitude.

I must confess, as an individual who gets no attention from the opposite sex and as one who may indeed be a turn-off (I have been told so ), I am super-envious of Vidyut, thinking of all the attention, adoration and pleasure he must be getting, due to his extreme dedication to his fitness and profession, and above all, as an individual with apparently a great attitude. Vidyut has also been a successful model, sashaying down ramps.

Damn, envy is a real uncomfortable feeling. If all of us were somehow able to be happy and comfortable within our own skins, abilities and identities, there would actually be so much peace, happiness and joy in the world! I think envy is what is the greatest fuel for the feeling of ownership and in fact, the primary component to that poisonous attitude.

Each one of us is the creator and each one of is equally beautiful and worthy in the eyes of the Creator, according to the LOO. So, why be envious? Yet, I struggle with great envy, and may have committed some outrageous acts of rage, because of that, in my personal life.

75.23 Questioner: I am sorry for my confusion. Sometimes, as you say, sound vibration complexes are not very adequate.

You made the statement in a previous session that the true adept lives more and more as it is. Will you explain and expand more upon that statement?

Ra: I am Ra. Each entity is the Creator. The entity, as it becomes more and more conscious of its self, gradually comes to the turning point at which it determines to seek either in service to others or in service to self. The seeker becomes the adept when it has balanced with minimal adequacy the energy centers red, orange, yellow, and blue with the addition of the green for the positive, thus moving into indigo work.

The adept then begins to do less of the preliminary or outer work, having to do with function, and begins to effect the inner work which has to do with being. As the adept becomes a more and more consciously crystallized entity it gradually manifests more and more of that which it always has been since before time; that is, the One Infinite Creator.

[Meerie]

Vidyut?
he doesn't do much for me tbh. Too many muscles, plus that constant fighting

Maybe you could make a poll among the (female) posters here, who finds him attractive

[norral]

i have found it is not so much how u look that is attractive to the opposite sex. it is a combination of how u feel about yourself and of taking and interest in the other person that is attractive to most, not all women. women enjoy having people listen to them. that is just a fact. just being a good listener will make u attractive to the opposite sex. of course it should be genuine. if its phony u wont be able to keep it up. and then feeling good about yourself is key. when u feel good about yourself u send out an energy i like myself. others pick that up and say well if he likes himself he must have a reason to like himself therefore i like him too. if u send out the energy i dont like myself others pick that up and will say well he knows who he is and doesnt like himself therefore i dont like him either. as far as some sin u have committed in the past its like who cares. everyone has done stuff they arent proud of, join the club . i doubt if what u have done is any more terrible than what the rest of us have done. we dont live in the past we live in the present. the bach flower essence holly is about forgiveness of others and self. that would be something to look at. there is nothing wrong with us or right with us except what exists in our own mind. what i am saying is u are plenty good enuf just the way u are , no improvements needed. love to u my brother

norral

[Confused]

i have found it is not so much how u look that is attractive to the opposite sex. it is a combination of how u feel about yourself and of taking and interest in the other person that is attractive to most, not all women. women enjoy having people listen to them. that is just a fact. just being a good listener will make u attractive to the opposite sex. of course it should be genuine. if its phony u wont be able to keep it up. and then feeling good about yourself is key. when u feel good about yourself u send out an energy i like myself. others pick that up and say well if he likes himself he must have a reason to like himself therefore i like him too. if u send out the energy i dont like myself others pick that up and will say well he knows who he is and doesnt like himself therefore i dont like him either. as far as some sin u have committed in the past its like who cares. everyone has done stuff they arent proud of, join the club . i doubt if what u have done is any more terrible than what the rest of us have done. we dont live in the past we live in the present. the bach flower essence holly is about forgiveness of others and self. that would be something to look at. there is nothing wrong with us or right with us except what exists in our own mind. what i am saying is u are plenty good enuf just the way u are , no improvements needed. love to u my brother

norral

Thank you very much, dear norral

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Vidyut?
he doesn't do much for me tbh.

Lol...I wonder what he should probably do for you! Probably, he could tickle you :idea:

[Spaced]

Whenever I joke to my girlfriend that I'm gonna get a muscleman bod she gets very upset. I guess she likes me skinny though somewhat squishy vs bulging and rock hard

[reeay]

[Conifer16]

I don't know what 'type' attracts me but I know I've had a strong pull to people and there is no pattern there that is consistent. The force that pulls me to someone could be the energy that two people synergistically create as a result of sharing a 'space' together.To me, seeking a type or trying to fulfill a need becomes stuff of fantasy and disappointment.

I used this analogy recently when explaining what attracts me to others.

I said that every one has a song. This song radiates out and impacts other songs from other people. When I suddenly feel myself attracted to someone it is because our songs have met and melded together creating a harmonizing tune. It is really random as well, the girls don't really follow much of a pattern in their looks. Their energy is just in harmony with my own. Unfortunately I am not yet so good at talking to girls. lol. With the last girl that I felt the harmony of energy with I got a little annoyed. Because like, she just came out of nowhere and hijacked my mind, she is too pretty(unfairly so) and unmade my confidence... and confused my normally amazing smarts :-P.

lol Only managed to make myself look weird and foolish, so this one is going no where.. I wonder what I was supposed to learn from all of this? hmm... Anyway, can't remember who said it here, but I would just like to meet someone who hasn't bought into the trivialities of society and is above it all. This is a bloody fun illusion folks! Keyword illusion. :-)

it is funny sometimes to realize that most people(my parents included) have bought into it all. Money is necessary. We must work. Nothing is free. People aren't good. You will not amount to anything because you are too laze and have unrealistic ideals about reality and will end up homeless because you think everyone is entitled to abundance and getting everything free... I have actually had that last sentence almost verbatim thrown at me by my dad.. lol but hey, I am young and idealistic, so I am supposed to be this way, right :-P plus I am Aquarius. I am supposed to be a little crazy :-P

lol My life is going to go bloody(not british, just like that word because the british are cool. much like bowties and fezes :-P ) amazing. I am going to break out of this poverty cycle my mom and her mom have been in. and will travel the world. pretty sure that I will get to see another star system in person before I die. haha :-)

that turned really random.. XD I will stop here before I write a novel full of random stuff about me and my thoughts.

Have fun,
Conifer18(I am 18 now. lol keep forgetting that..)
Namaste
Adonai Vasu Borragus :-D

[Meerie]

Those abs freak me out, honestly, I would be scared if I touched them that they would be icey cold and my hand would bounce off or something...
steely abs

Is there something like Absphobia?

[Spaced]

I wonder . . . if you had pecs that hard could you make juice by mashing fruit against them? lol

[reeay]

There is a difference between being attracted to physical/outward oriented features of a person AND who we're emotionally, spiritually, mentally attracted to, and compatible with. The first is the stuff of fantasy/lust, and the others are more grounded and sensible. Then there's being attracted to an imaginary feature that is more of an expectation than reality. Disappointment = possible.

As a person matures, I believe that attraction becomes more about being pulled towards people who are congruent with 'who you are'. There's respect and deep caring that helps two people to work through issues together and grow together. There are common values and interests that bond people together.

So screw muscles lol (hahahaha that's a slip).

[Confused]

So screw muscles lol (hahahaha that's a slip).

A revealing Freudian slip :p

[reeay]

My old colleagues and I used to stick this notepad all over our office lol with silly freudian slips haha

[norral]

i just had an idea. it would be kind of cool to own a lingerie shop and call it "freudian slips" ha ha.

norral

[Meerie]

That reminds me of the TV series
"how I meant your mother"
ooops "how I met your mother" of course

[reeay]

If you google lingerie and freudian slip there is an online store already lol

Meerie that's a good idea for a show lol
How accurate is it to say that men look for attributes that their mothers had/have?

[Aaron]

Guys, as hilarious as you are, and as much as I love you all, I need to be the grumpy moderator and ask you to stay on topic, please.

[Meerie]

happy Valentine's day, Aaron (and everyone else of course).