I'd imagine there is a point before "healing", where the (disembodied) loved one could return (mainly to the time/space present) in some conscious capacity to communicate a message directly. Further, if the deceased individual had already 'graduated' 3D, there would be a clearer map and more consciousness present with which to devote to such an attempt.
BTW, this should go into Q'uo channeling sub-forum.
BTW, this should go into Q'uo channeling sub-forum.