Love as a function of Acceptance

[Patrick]

That's not what I understood in what he said. What makes you say that ?

From this:

'love in the moment' is an exercise where one, having recognized an opportunity but still not having sufficient acceptance to fully appreciate or express without that willed condition on that circumstance, opens up to allow it as a new experience.

Am I misreading?

To me this means that if you are not perfectly balanced in the face of a situation, you will use this situation as a catalyst to balance your self and get closer to acceptance of said situation. Like Ra said, as long as you react to a situation, you are still working with that catalyst.