01-12-2010, 02:41 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-12-2010, 03:00 PM by Peregrinus.)
(01-12-2010, 02:16 PM)airwaves Wrote: Yarrrrrrrrrrrrr, Oneness is as oneness does.What was your second question?
Your question brother should have been "What was my other question"?
My other question was "What was the purpose to this relationship where it should end with me feeling suffering and pain"? I recently began a new relationship, and though all has gone so beautifully, a few days ago she simply distanced herself and did not communicate her reason for doing so. No attempt I made would bring her to talk to me, so I was simply left in the dark.
To quote Buddha, "The man who loves 50 has 50 woes. The man who loves none has none".
That was the gist of my answer. This incarnate experience is as much about the suffering and pain as it is about the happiness and joy. I was given the ability to experience feel joy and happiness, and now I feel suffering and pain. The key word here is feel, for feeling love and the opposite of love in its minute variations, in each part of this experience, is why we are here.