07-04-2012, 09:18 PM
I appreciate your openness Confused. I've been more the quiet type when there are hostilities between my mother and I. She gets angry a lot, and in turn this makes me angry. She is often condescending to me, and I've pretty much put up with it for awhile. So it wears on me. When I open her up to this, it just makes her angrier. I'm not motivated to do chores or work to help her out because of our differences. So it is the perfect chance for me to show love. To her, I'm inadequate and she's called me incompetent to others.