Hi Lorna
Remember too that our loved ones have Higher Selves and as we know,are quite capable of leading Us to our true Place. Your loving energy that you emit supplies plenty of Power to present an opportunity of "growth" for your friend. Your words may seem "muddy and unclear" as you speak to her but your Love is understood quite well. I tell myself when I'm in similar situations around loved ones to relax and be myself. My Higher Self which is also Me charges the space and in subtle and beautiful ways Higher information energy is transfered and not usually in a direct verbal form from myself. All kinds of interactions and conversations are going on and our Loving Energy always Charges the scene. We are much more than a brain and language.
Whenever we go into a mall for example I believe that every encounter no matter how small that we have we transfer energy from the Source to the Other Selves and we can Charge the Space with Energy that can present to Everyone the opportunity to Know, if they choose too. I'm sure that even your smile can move a mountain.

Whenever we go into a mall for example I believe that every encounter no matter how small that we have we transfer energy from the Source to the Other Selves and we can Charge the Space with Energy that can present to Everyone the opportunity to Know, if they choose too. I'm sure that even your smile can move a mountain.