The mental learn/teachings necessary for contact with intelligent infinity.

[Ashim]

This is my favorite quote from the Ra work. This was a big wake up call for me.

Ra is refering to the emotional clearing that the adept experiences.
For me on a personal level the initial challenge was gaining the ability to suspend emotional reactions in situations.
To try to put into practice Ra's example of patience/impatience has worked for me.
This has been discussed here before; it's like the ability to 'hold' a thought form for long enough to enable a balanced view.

This could also be described as working with so called principles.
Everyone incarnate has a different set of principles, all in varying orders in the scale.
When suspending judgement of a situation one is connecting to intelligent infinity. The gateway is open.
The key is how you choose to respond. If one chooses to 'react' then the time loop is continued, is one able to hold and balance the thought form then a bridge to higher self is constructed.

To get to the core of your question: In any situation both ends of the emotional scale will be felt. Hold the initial impatience and search for the corresponding patience. It will be there. Then the balancing can occur. It's like a charge being blown, a bias being dropped. The result is an increase in clarity.