12-23-2009, 03:40 PM
I have a friend who is a psychic vampire. He constantly sucks off the energy from those around him, and since I vibrate at a very high energy level at times, I seem to be a walking buffet. Being around him would often leave me feeling weak and empty inside. It was very distressing for me because I wanted to accept his friendship but I felt completely horrible every time I spent more than a few minutes with him.
In the end, I think the thing that made the difference for me was that several people expressed to him their thoughts on what he was doing (I wasn’t the only one who noticed the effects of his ‘feeding’). Being of somewhat of a dark nature, he has happily embraced the title “vampire” and is very interested in finding out more about his abilities. In all honesty I find this a little disturbing, but the important part is that now that he realizes what he was doing, he actively tries not to do it when I am in his presence. In fact, I’ve discovered that when he puts forth the effort he is quite capable of releasing a great deal of that energy and sending back out to those around him. When he does this it is like standing in a warm ray of sunshine.
Perhaps, if he accepts the possibility of such energy exchanges happening, you should discuss with your friend the effects he is having on your well-being. It is likely that, if he is a true friend, he will put forth more of an effort to control his negative energies. I’m not saying to accuse him of anything, but if he has no idea what he is doing it is unlikely that the situation will be resolved.
There are also shielding techniques that can help prevent your energies from being syphoned off in such a way. Every time I go around my friend I erect a bubble shield of light around myself, imagining all negative energy bouncing off of its surface. At one point this actually had a physical effect on him. His projections seemed to be bounced right back at him and he got a headache. He knows I shield myself in his presence and if anything seems to appreciate that I’m not expecting him to do all the work.
In the end, if you feel this is a catalyst, then there is a lesson to be learned from this experience. You can use it to somehow better yourself, and if it is a dual catalyst, it is an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with this friend. Facing difficulties together is a great way to expand a relationship. In my personal opinion, the one thing not to do would be to avoid the situation altogether and leave him there to face his pain alone without any explanation why. I feel you could be of service to each other in the midst of this catalyst.
In the end, I think the thing that made the difference for me was that several people expressed to him their thoughts on what he was doing (I wasn’t the only one who noticed the effects of his ‘feeding’). Being of somewhat of a dark nature, he has happily embraced the title “vampire” and is very interested in finding out more about his abilities. In all honesty I find this a little disturbing, but the important part is that now that he realizes what he was doing, he actively tries not to do it when I am in his presence. In fact, I’ve discovered that when he puts forth the effort he is quite capable of releasing a great deal of that energy and sending back out to those around him. When he does this it is like standing in a warm ray of sunshine.
Perhaps, if he accepts the possibility of such energy exchanges happening, you should discuss with your friend the effects he is having on your well-being. It is likely that, if he is a true friend, he will put forth more of an effort to control his negative energies. I’m not saying to accuse him of anything, but if he has no idea what he is doing it is unlikely that the situation will be resolved.
There are also shielding techniques that can help prevent your energies from being syphoned off in such a way. Every time I go around my friend I erect a bubble shield of light around myself, imagining all negative energy bouncing off of its surface. At one point this actually had a physical effect on him. His projections seemed to be bounced right back at him and he got a headache. He knows I shield myself in his presence and if anything seems to appreciate that I’m not expecting him to do all the work.
In the end, if you feel this is a catalyst, then there is a lesson to be learned from this experience. You can use it to somehow better yourself, and if it is a dual catalyst, it is an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with this friend. Facing difficulties together is a great way to expand a relationship. In my personal opinion, the one thing not to do would be to avoid the situation altogether and leave him there to face his pain alone without any explanation why. I feel you could be of service to each other in the midst of this catalyst.