2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Shemaya]

...might they be subconsciously engaging in sexual behaviors ...

I ask because, in my experience, the women who I have observed most often complaining about their partner's sexual performance are the same ones who strike me as those types who would wield their sexual power over men in an attempt to control them.

Being a man, I wouldn't really know. But I figured this to be the best place I know of to find some female voices of wisdom.

I think many behaviors, not just sexual, are engaged in with alot of "subconscious" motivations, it's just the way it is in 3D, don't you think?

Also, I think that using sexual power to control or manipulate is a lower chakra energy exchange. So it is playing games like you and Monica were discussing. So when that is the basis of the exchange, you (not you personally) are not really raising the energy to the more subtle and "higher" , love-based connection, not to say that both energies couldn't be at occurring at the same time...but if the energy is getting used up in the lower chakras in power games, there is not as much flow into the higher chakras.

The abridged history you posted sounds like lower chakra issues at play also, who has power, and having power over others. Power plays. And that has had its moment in history, but now it's time for for green ray sexuality to be more the norm, I think. And that would not include using sex as a means to control and manipulate. It's definitely time for women to be appreciating and respecting their significant others rather than bashing, but we have to get out of our victim consciousness first, and be empowered and take responsibility.