2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Monica]

Could be. I know my views are sometimes a bit unusual, but it has always seemed to me that the women are in charge, when it comes to sexual matters. As a potential mate, the man gets chosen, and not the other way around. Though there is this whole (in my opinion, ridiculous) charade that goes on whereby women let the men believe that it is the other way around.

Oh you figured that out??? Oh no, the secret's out!

Kidding!!!

I've been frustrated by this in the past because I refuse to play into that game, and there are many women who insist it be played. Especially at younger ages. So it resulted in much alone time and a fair amount of negativity over that. Though in the end, I am happy I held out like a stubborn old goat!

Congratulations!

Yes, I think age and attractiveness have a lot to do with how the game is played. It works both ways, though. When I was in high school, I played that game that way. But the guys were also playing their own game: ask her out, see how much they can get away with, and then, don't know her the next day. When I started 'falling in love' the game totally changed.

Yeah, it can work both ways, no doubt about it. There are different games. Only when I got into a committed relationship did the 'games' start falling away. That, in my experience, is what blue ray is all about: no more games.

So anyway, the men eventually overthrew the women, raped everybody, and set themselves up as the rulers. Then they went around and systematically destroyed any evidence that the women were ever in power in the first place. This included killing any women who dared to pass down the old traditions.

What a lovely herstory!

I know a few women who, whenever they are quoting their mate will make a buffoonish-sounding voice as if anything which could possibly come out of their man's mouth is pure idiocy.

How horrible! And disrespectful to their mate!

So some men are idiotic pigs. So what? If some women don't like that, they can choose not to encourage these men by having sex with them and giving birth to their babies.

Good point! And 'some' women really are shrews. It works both ways, with lots of variation on both sides.

One of my sisters was abused by her husband. She finally left him but is so full of hate, and so stuck in her beliefs that 'all' men are that way, that she has poisoned her daughter, who is now in her 40s and never had a boyfriend. How sad.

After all, they are the ones in power, right? If somebody is going to clean up our gene pool, it is going to be the women!

Yikes! I don't dare agree with, or comment on, this! :-/