2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Shemaya]

taken from http://www.llresearch.org/transcripts/is..._0325.aspx


What the feminine offers is the inspiration from spirit. That is the other portion of that male expression of strength, power and virility. The woman is expressing acceptance, unconditional love, and the energy of the Creator Itself. For you see, the woman, unlike man, is possessed of a direct route or connection to the womb of, shall we say, Mother Nature or the red-ray energy of planet Earth.

The woman has that sea of infinity and eternity flowing through her. She is much closer to her priestliness because she must tend to the circumstances of her menses monthly and she feels the pull of the moon, the tides, and her passions in a way that, generally speaking, men are not encouraged to do in your culture.

I have found that as I cleared and opened the red and orange ray, my sexual nature has grown and expanded incredibly and is definitely a source of inspiration for my husband.

In a long-term relationship though, this clearing is done together on one level and also individually. I think of marriage/ long-term mating as a sacrament and an opportunity to clear and tune and open up our bodies to the divine, that is how it has been for me. My husband and I have had alot to work through stemming from childhood issues and abuses, I am usually the one who wants to confront and tackle the challenges that these wounds and knots gave us in relationship, he is more content if everything "looks good".

For a female, healing the relationship to self, expanding self love is key. (Probably for men too, am speaking for myself) As I have opened up and cleared those lower chakras I find my husband is more attracted to me and more energized to do his thing which is an expression of "strength, power, and virility". And more appreciative of me as well, which mirrors my expanded self-love.

Regarding orgasm, definitely things have changed with that in 20 + years, when the setting is right and the energy is open, we've had the experience fully clothed laying next to one another and embracing, where my body was in orgasm. My husband was not sure how that happened, but I know he liked it and was kind of amazed.

So for me it has been totally related to my own healing process and opening up my energy . But I also give him feedback. So instead of saying" your hot" (his favorite compliment), now he may come out with a sincere, "You are radiant" which I find especially complementary.