2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Monica]

Both men and women can have multiple orgasms and extended orgasms, but it comes more easily to women. I suspect this was intentionally part of the design. A sexual encounter with the higher chakras flowing can result in the nurturing of the male by what is fondly referred to as 'female essence.'

This isn't just physical but very, very spiritual.

There are lots of books and even seminars for teaching men how to achieve what comes naturally to women, but in my experience, it has much more to do with the relationship than with physical techniques.

When both partners give fully of themselves to the other, not just sexually but in everyday life, thus strengthening their trust, commitment and emotional intimacy, then the sexual relationship can deepen over time. There's no such thing as boredom in the bedroom, because it becomes an experience in consciousness, not just physical. There's a lot to be said about long-term monogamous relationships.

My interpretation of Ra's words on the subject is that women have a sacred responsibility to help guide men from mere lust (lower chakras only) to the spiritual expression of sexuality (communion on the higher chakras also).