2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Ankh]

Finally, I'd also like to add that my own experience (with only one mate) tells me that the female orgasm can be just as frequent as the male if not more frequent.

This is my personal experience as well. I am a female and have not problems with that. Are you female or male yourself?

My experience tells me that the ability to connect on this sacred level is precisely what makes the female orgasm more reliable (and it also brings the two into unison). But this achievement must be reciprocal. It is the male's responsibility to focus on the female (and not himself), just as much as it this is so for the female. The simultaneous orgasm is as the decenscion of the Divine into our incarnate bodies and it is they who decide that orgasm will occur, not we. We need not worry about it, or expect it. We will come to know when it is time.

My personal experience is that the male doesn't even need to focus on the female. I'll get it anyway. What sometimes makes it of deeper pleasure though, is my own consciously chosen focus on giving, and opening up to him. It can also be, but only at some extent, governed with the will, or mind. Would you like to elaborate your first sentence?