To come in to this conversation (very) late (how did I miss it, it's fantastic), and to answer the original post, I think acceptance is simply the understanding that all experiences are valid. It does not mean one gives away their power (direction of will) to another(s).
Hence, the disciplined personality knows who they are and why they are here. While accepting the free will of others, they remain unwavering in their beliefs in which to act with integrity and purpose (service to others).
This, in my experience, is what people mean by the phrase 'warrior of light'. It's nothing to do with aggression, it's the self control, balance and determination (founded in love; STO).
Hence, the disciplined personality knows who they are and why they are here. While accepting the free will of others, they remain unwavering in their beliefs in which to act with integrity and purpose (service to others).
This, in my experience, is what people mean by the phrase 'warrior of light'. It's nothing to do with aggression, it's the self control, balance and determination (founded in love; STO).