09-30-2009, 09:14 AM
I wish you the same JMF...keep your head above water and don't follow the frustrations. And welcome to the forum, feel free to hang out more often. We know you exist now.. If you don't occasionally check in we may have to go and find you 
My relation is pretty much the same. It's not dead yet, it's also not alive either. And formally it's over. Fortunately no kids or complicating factors here. We just live together. So far we manage to do this without anger and blame games. But I cannot avoid occasional frustration and just blagh, what a mess.
Life goes on, what we make of it is literally our choice. Even if we don't have the choice to go back to the old ways, we do have the ability to choose between a positive and a negative outcome...
My relation is pretty much the same. It's not dead yet, it's also not alive either. And formally it's over. Fortunately no kids or complicating factors here. We just live together. So far we manage to do this without anger and blame games. But I cannot avoid occasional frustration and just blagh, what a mess.
Life goes on, what we make of it is literally our choice. Even if we don't have the choice to go back to the old ways, we do have the ability to choose between a positive and a negative outcome...