The mysterious nature of time

[3DMonkey]

By 'abstract', I mean what has been extended away from self in order to be observed, recognized and understood (accepted or acknowledged). Often these projections do lead to emotional responses as they move from mind to body.

Even in the seemingly quite volatile landscape of mind, misunderstandings (biases) remain as attractors unless and until addressed in some manner. At which point we reclaim or take ownership of that part of ourselves. Until then we necessarily force others to point out our misunderstandings. Such is the nature of the complimentary neurotic structures that form the basis of most relationships.

This helps us cope with our self. (and what else is there, right? )

In daily relationships though, I think the projections should not be something scoffed at or attempted to overcome. These projections can never be eliminated, in my opinion. Awareness is crucial, but releasing an emotional response is not a weakness. In fact, it can be just what the relationship requires.

Recently, in a multiple personal and societal relationships situations, I found myself aware. In awareness, I could see the biases and the energy that was trying to unfold, including my own biases. I expressed what I would term a "non-abstract" known trait of my self, but at the same time is a very emotional response trait. (This is my point of conversation here- that understanding self is not overcoming self). This trait was a well placed, emotional "NO!", figuratively putting my foot down. This, in turn, set off a series of events, significantly stirring multiple persons' personal biases and recognizable value systems. The end result, although stirring up many individuals internally, was one where every one was pleased.

Knowing oneself may be a clear pathway to an 'opening', but the opening is an over glorified concept of simple day to day dealings in life. In my opinion.