09-15-2011, 09:10 AM
dude, did you say this girl is only 14? i remember what it was like being 14 and i personally think you're hoping for more adult kind of feelings from her than she is probably ready to even have yet. i'd wait til she is about 16-17 before even worrying about what she might think of you and even then maturity is not certain.. realistically i'd say you've got around 10 more years before a chance of things developing - if you even know her / like her / havent moved on by then (which you probably will have). she probably didnt add you because she didnt know you well enough and was probably thinking "why is this strange boy adding me?". in my opinion dont stress about it, just see her as a potential new friend and accept whatever is meant to happen..