07-28-2011, 06:37 PM
Hey everyone, I just wanted to update on this because I'm pleasantly stunned - ask and ye really shall receive! As you know this situation was VERY stressful, and I asked and asked for a way to separate from this person, but I had no clue how to do it. It escalated to the point where she tried to get me fired, but our bosses like my work so they told her it wasn't going to happen. Then suddenly this week she just up and left! So now I've been told the office is mine to find someone more compatible with me. It wasn't my intention for it to work out that way, I was just hoping to stick with it long enough to leave myself, but the universe has spoken and its all now such a relief, and I'm SO thankful that it worked, and that this particular "lesson" is over.
I believe the lesson was that you love everyone, but you can't make them love you, and I chose in the end to love the person that she could someday be (that I saw glimpses of here and there), not the person she is now and I realised that while I needed to be away from her, I didn't "hate" her. If she ever comes to me someday needing help I will give it with a loving heart, and if she someday opened her heart to me I will forgive her, and that's all I can do. So the lesson is done.
Anyway, the point is that asking the universe really does work! It's amazing and I hope everyone can feel more confident to do this when they need to.
I believe the lesson was that you love everyone, but you can't make them love you, and I chose in the end to love the person that she could someday be (that I saw glimpses of here and there), not the person she is now and I realised that while I needed to be away from her, I didn't "hate" her. If she ever comes to me someday needing help I will give it with a loving heart, and if she someday opened her heart to me I will forgive her, and that's all I can do. So the lesson is done.
Anyway, the point is that asking the universe really does work! It's amazing and I hope everyone can feel more confident to do this when they need to.