01-09-2009, 03:38 PM
I'd suggest unconditional positive regard. An old term. But it means that whatever situation you're in, consider the other person to be something truly beautiful. Even if the interaction is unpleasant it's only an unpleasant interaction with a beautiful person.. Sometimes you need to search a bit to find the beauty. But it's usually there.
Smiles then will come naturally. And by just seeing someone's strengths and beauty you tend to bring it out in them. That's a service and not just to others.
Do not be worried. If you struggle with the idea of graduation. You struggle with the idea of not being good enough. If you were service to self oriented you would struggle with the idea of not getting enough. The fact that you're even capable of asking this question puts any doubt out of my mind... I believe you are good enough.
I'm thinking about this whole 51% thing and I'm confused about what it means. It's certainly not that only 51% will graduate. Because much more than half the people are essentially good people and Ra tells us we need to be 51% positive in ourselves not in relation to... You can see that most people succeed in this by just looking around and through the fears and prejudices, I believe most people would be good if they had the chance. The vast majority will ascend in those terms. But also if the vast majority of earths denizens suddenly become ascended masters. Something that already happens. You can see the public becoming more and more critical of the negativity in the world. And more and more organized to resist it. I'd expect this to drag people towards the positive even those originally not inclined to do so. Especially because certain spiritual traditions have this Bodhisattvean vow that says "I'm not going anywhere until all my brothers and sisters are free." So that would mean that the only way you're going to get away from 4d positive is by insisting. That's not any of you by a long shot.
Now I'm no expert, this is just my common sense interpretation and observations. Maybe combined with some positive regards. Just relax, enjoy the changes. Try to do the right thing and everything is going to be all right.
Smiles then will come naturally. And by just seeing someone's strengths and beauty you tend to bring it out in them. That's a service and not just to others.
Do not be worried. If you struggle with the idea of graduation. You struggle with the idea of not being good enough. If you were service to self oriented you would struggle with the idea of not getting enough. The fact that you're even capable of asking this question puts any doubt out of my mind... I believe you are good enough.
I'm thinking about this whole 51% thing and I'm confused about what it means. It's certainly not that only 51% will graduate. Because much more than half the people are essentially good people and Ra tells us we need to be 51% positive in ourselves not in relation to... You can see that most people succeed in this by just looking around and through the fears and prejudices, I believe most people would be good if they had the chance. The vast majority will ascend in those terms. But also if the vast majority of earths denizens suddenly become ascended masters. Something that already happens. You can see the public becoming more and more critical of the negativity in the world. And more and more organized to resist it. I'd expect this to drag people towards the positive even those originally not inclined to do so. Especially because certain spiritual traditions have this Bodhisattvean vow that says "I'm not going anywhere until all my brothers and sisters are free." So that would mean that the only way you're going to get away from 4d positive is by insisting. That's not any of you by a long shot.
Now I'm no expert, this is just my common sense interpretation and observations. Maybe combined with some positive regards. Just relax, enjoy the changes. Try to do the right thing and everything is going to be all right.