08-16-2009, 01:10 PM
Thank you, Lorna! Yes, my daughter has much in common with what your mother went through as far as physical symptoms. I believe my daughter also struggles with the control issues. She does not want to become an adult, feels inadequate, etc.
Thanks also for the encouragement. I understand through TLOO that demonstrating love and acceptance is the best and possibly only thing I can truly do, unless she asks for specific help. I think part of me rests in the knowledge that all is as it should be but the mom in me wants to be sure I don't personally do anything to mess things up! If I can't actively be helpful then I hope to not accidentally be hurtful. You have given my some much appreciated reassurance. Thanks!!
Thanks also for the encouragement. I understand through TLOO that demonstrating love and acceptance is the best and possibly only thing I can truly do, unless she asks for specific help. I think part of me rests in the knowledge that all is as it should be but the mom in me wants to be sure I don't personally do anything to mess things up! If I can't actively be helpful then I hope to not accidentally be hurtful. You have given my some much appreciated reassurance. Thanks!!