Comparison of the two paths

[3DMonkey]

a magnet with side A and side B

two people on each side 1,2 and 3,4

1 says, 'side A is better because it is touching me'
3 says, 'no, side B is better because it is touching me'

2 says, 'aw this side sucks, side B looks so better'
4 says, 'whatever, your side A is the desired side'

And so on and so forth

5 is aware and says, 'both sides are with me as one'