the last few posts by zygna already proved what i was trying to convey about 'competition' and its side effects.
the premise was simple :
competition being a negative oriented event, since it involves some winning, some losing.
cooperation being a positive oriented event, in which everyone helps each other, noone 'wins' or noone 'loses'.
instead of discussing the philosophical basis as the above, zygna is instead discussing my perceived lack of ... 'whatever' (cant exactly sure what it is), by talking about my past, 'people like me', 'my lack of' (insert whatever you see proper here), and so on. basically, he has preferred to assault me instead of discussing the philosophy (i see he didnt make any mention about the bolded philosophical definitions above), however, ironically he is 'calling me over' to that side, with 'love'.
quite. you have created such a 'conflict' situation in your 2nd reply to me, when i objected to your proposition that competition was positive. it took the form of direct assault on my past, which you know nothing about.
the premise was simple :
competition being a negative oriented event, since it involves some winning, some losing.
cooperation being a positive oriented event, in which everyone helps each other, noone 'wins' or noone 'loses'.
instead of discussing the philosophical basis as the above, zygna is instead discussing my perceived lack of ... 'whatever' (cant exactly sure what it is), by talking about my past, 'people like me', 'my lack of' (insert whatever you see proper here), and so on. basically, he has preferred to assault me instead of discussing the philosophy (i see he didnt make any mention about the bolded philosophical definitions above), however, ironically he is 'calling me over' to that side, with 'love'.
Quote:They just tend to be drawn towards me.
quite. you have created such a 'conflict' situation in your 2nd reply to me, when i objected to your proposition that competition was positive. it took the form of direct assault on my past, which you know nothing about.