07-01-2011, 02:35 AM
(06-30-2011, 07:53 AM)Oceania Wrote: facebook does what? all fb does imo is let you know friends of friends that you might want to friend. but to lie that someone wants to be your friend?
Conifer, i think you're falling in the trap of online communication. if you really want to know, just call this person up and ask straight up. what's the point of hiding behind online stuff if you know them in person. maybe just level and say it's ok if they don't wanna be fb friends, but you wanted to make sure it wasn't a mix up. i mean that's just my advice, i could be wrong. it just seems like many people are having problems in this area BECAUSE of facebook.
Hi,
I have convinced myself to ask next I see this person because I don't have the phone number.
I don't know if you have guessed but I like this person and so there is that added aspect to any interaction we have. And this person has corectly guessed that I like Her but I don't know how she feels about that which makes me really nervous. Also she is 1 year seven months younger than me which might not be alot when you are older but seeing as I am 16 that makes her 14 approaching 15 and from what I remember of being 14 I liked the opposite gender but wasn't really ready for a relationship of the kind I want now, but she is a girl obviously and maybe girls are ready for that kind of thing earlier I don't know. So I realize now how therapeutic this post is as I am able to lay this kind of stuff out in a place that I feel very comfortable in due to the beautiful energies expressed here. So thanks for that service. And if you want to give advice or a females perspective that would be appreatiated very much.
Thanks,
Conifer16
Adonai Vasu Borragus
P.s
Thank you for the advice Oceania and I agree with you about Facebook creating issues with communication between people.
Oh and also I am not able to see her very often because she lives 45 minutes away and because Of gas prices my mom has decided to not go out to visit her family as often as before so I haven't seen her in months and recently when opportunities to head up to her house have arisen something happens to keep me from going and so I don't know if that is a message to let her go or what and so I am very confused and now know what people mean by girls are confusing.