Thanks for the link Spectrum, I will watch it tonight. Achieving the delicate balance seems to be quite a feat.
In terms of the 50/50 concept being hard to achieve..I'd say it is because of our self serving nature. There isn't so much a balance of making sure to love the self at play in 3d. Because don't forget about The Choice concept. One must be fully committed to a path to be harvested. 3DM pointed that out and I realized that if someone considers themselves to be a 3d native, they make take loving the self to be a reason to indulge the self and always weigh every action/thought. A positively polarized person doesn't weigh each step. Their frame of mind is always from the perspective of serving others, while being true to themselves and act in loving the self when it's called for. Loving the self in a positive way is obviously necessary, but I don't think it's viewed as evening every action out on the 50/50 scale.
In terms of the 50/50 concept being hard to achieve..I'd say it is because of our self serving nature. There isn't so much a balance of making sure to love the self at play in 3d. Because don't forget about The Choice concept. One must be fully committed to a path to be harvested. 3DM pointed that out and I realized that if someone considers themselves to be a 3d native, they make take loving the self to be a reason to indulge the self and always weigh every action/thought. A positively polarized person doesn't weigh each step. Their frame of mind is always from the perspective of serving others, while being true to themselves and act in loving the self when it's called for. Loving the self in a positive way is obviously necessary, but I don't think it's viewed as evening every action out on the 50/50 scale.