05-10-2011, 03:52 AM
3DMonkey Wrote:I seek this communication.
Icaro Wrote:It takes a strong will to fully express yourself to others.
I think it's a combination of will, acceptance, fear of rejection and many other 'distortions' (as Ra would say), all done through balancing - meditation etc. We are all very, very unique, with many, many distortions and fears. Most of our limitations are self imposed. We may have self-esteem issues for any number of reasons, even past life, and that goes for all the other distortions as well, gathered in this life and past lives.
The other day I listened to such a cool podcast.
Jason Comely on Rejection Therapy - http://www.cmn.tv/radio/jason-comely/
Now this guy suffered from fear of rejection to quite an extreme degree, getting anxiety attacks, sweaty palms and even being unable to talk. He's a web designer, and he says when he was in front of his PC, it was his comfort zone, where no-one could reject him. He said he was extremely lonely, and realized that his comfort zone was actually his cage. Then he did something very drastic, and designed his own rejection therapy, where he started a game, where he must go out into the world and try his utmost best to be rejected at least once every single day. Rejection is winning in the game, and you score points.
So he basically threw himself into the deep end, by facing his fear head on. He says it was liberating, and basically when you listen to the podcast, you realize that he made a lot of headway in opening his blue energy centre. He says it just felt so good, so he started a website to help others do the same, because everyone suffers from fear of rejection in varying degrees:
http://www.rejectiontherapy.com/
He says it was actually extremely hard to be rejected, and most people were just too nice. He then realised how all his fear was actually for no good reason – self imposed. Thousands of people are playing it now. He says we have all become too isolated via the internet and electronic media, and it's time to connect personally again.
If there is anyone who can't listen to the podcast and want me to transcribe it, I'd be happy to.