Mhm..to not be honest is really a disservice, because you are withholding truths and hindering progress. As always, there is a balance..as you don't want to throw anything in someone's face, or communicate information that they didn't ask for.
Another way to look at self love is to place the viewpoint outside of the self. We all have unique identities that are to be embraced. If two people are having issues and a person is less accepting of my characteristics, limits, capabilities, and needs, whose problem is that really? They are the one with blockages, unable to express acceptance and understanding. Am I to just always forfeit myself? There is an equal amount of responsibility on the other self to accept me just as much as I am responsible to accept them. Thus, there is a delicate balance of love/wisdom.
So from my reference in this example, as a balanced being I understand that they are in the process of learning and I give more of myself, bending my needs to help with their understanding while exercising acceptance. There is a limit though and you can literally feel when you realize you are compromising too much of yourself. You feel drained and you can feel the denial of self building. This typically happens when you aren't getting results, or it has compounded into being a situation that you don't want to be in. A good example of this is when people have expectations of us. We've all been there, especially with parents. As a loving person, you may just kind of go through the motions to please or be viewed in a positive light. All the while, you know you aren't being true to yourself. Over time you find yourself in a position that is a lie. You weren't being honest with others or yourself.
At this point, a balanced being will step back and own and nurture the self. Being able to love your self and recognizing when to embrace your needs is completely necessary, and a requirement for those on the path to unity.
That's why as a 6d being, if you have the opportunity to work with the personality behind the veil here in 3d, it is so valuable in measuring your ability to balance the love of self and other self. A being can be extremely compassionate willing to sacrifice its needs, which it is happy to do and is necessary in service, but it also knows when they have crossed over into an area of neglect.
Yes, there are compromising aspects to an overly compassionate person.
Another way to look at self love is to place the viewpoint outside of the self. We all have unique identities that are to be embraced. If two people are having issues and a person is less accepting of my characteristics, limits, capabilities, and needs, whose problem is that really? They are the one with blockages, unable to express acceptance and understanding. Am I to just always forfeit myself? There is an equal amount of responsibility on the other self to accept me just as much as I am responsible to accept them. Thus, there is a delicate balance of love/wisdom.
So from my reference in this example, as a balanced being I understand that they are in the process of learning and I give more of myself, bending my needs to help with their understanding while exercising acceptance. There is a limit though and you can literally feel when you realize you are compromising too much of yourself. You feel drained and you can feel the denial of self building. This typically happens when you aren't getting results, or it has compounded into being a situation that you don't want to be in. A good example of this is when people have expectations of us. We've all been there, especially with parents. As a loving person, you may just kind of go through the motions to please or be viewed in a positive light. All the while, you know you aren't being true to yourself. Over time you find yourself in a position that is a lie. You weren't being honest with others or yourself.
At this point, a balanced being will step back and own and nurture the self. Being able to love your self and recognizing when to embrace your needs is completely necessary, and a requirement for those on the path to unity.
That's why as a 6d being, if you have the opportunity to work with the personality behind the veil here in 3d, it is so valuable in measuring your ability to balance the love of self and other self. A being can be extremely compassionate willing to sacrifice its needs, which it is happy to do and is necessary in service, but it also knows when they have crossed over into an area of neglect.
(05-06-2011, 02:12 PM)kycahi Wrote: So IMHO, the blue density comes after the green entity has been exhaustively compassionate and finally notices clues. Ra described their cluelessness and how they kept trying to do better at serving the wretches of this planet.
Yes, there are compromising aspects to an overly compassionate person.