Acceptance and Will

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The distinction is clear. The teetering continues.

It is not teetering my friend. Integrating wisdom does not mean you are moving towards the negative polarity away from serving others.

You are harmonizing the boundaries between self and other self so that acts reflect unison. It is the integration of unity within yourself. Because in 3d, acting towards an other self to not allow them to completely tread on your self, is to invoke the symbolic act of balance between all selves involved. You aren't serving yourself in any kind of majority at all. You can serve another and reserve a small part of yourself when necessary.

In unity, a situation isn't just about one person now is it? Unity radiates service to others, but it also must harmonize all selves involved.

I can radiate and serve you above all else. You too can radiate and serve me above all else also. We certainly aren't going to fight over who serves the most for who, so you come to a meeting point where you mutually harmonize what each needs, together. In 3d, you reflect this symbolically by having love for your self when it is necessary.