05-05-2011, 12:23 PM
Do you not think that your expectation robbed her of receiving love? Did the expectation of her choice place yourself in a position of rejecting her? Were you giving her what she needed or were you giving her what you thought would mold her into your vision for her?
Alas, as there is nothing wrong or right, your final rejection of her is what she truly "needed" all along. This does not make one wise. And if it is done for the love of oneself, in conscious application, then it is, in fact, love for oneself.
The distinction is clear. The teetering continues.
Alas, as there is nothing wrong or right, your final rejection of her is what she truly "needed" all along. This does not make one wise. And if it is done for the love of oneself, in conscious application, then it is, in fact, love for oneself.
The distinction is clear. The teetering continues.