05-04-2011, 07:10 PM
(05-04-2011, 02:42 PM)unity100 Wrote: worrying about others, is a burden that you should carry.
I would add to it that it is also useful to release the feeling of wanting to receive gratitude from the others for whom we feel worry.
If we start feeling entitled to gratitude from the others for the concern that we experience for them, we might be left disillusioned as they suddenly seem to move away oblivious to our feelings for them. In many cases, we might even end up feeling used. As Ra said, do your work and relinquish desire for any particular outcome.