Acceptance and Will

[Monica]

Polarization is a result of relationship. I think it is false to assume that I am polarizing positive on behalf of the "victim". If I am engaging with the aggressor, I am solely polarizing via this relationship, and at this point there is no relationship between "victim" and I, which is needed to activate toward polarization. Therefore, it is my approach toward the active relationship that has any bearring, or work, toward polarization.

I haven't turned to the topic of polarizing by way of the "victim", yet.

I don't understand these statements.

My understanding is that polarization occurs based on our response to catalyst. Catalyst isn't a person or a relationship, though it may involve people and relationships. A person can be alone and experience catalyst.