04-14-2011, 10:11 PM
(04-14-2011, 09:02 PM)Ocean Wrote: i think you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it. what bothers you about it, jealousy?
I don't think it's so much jealousy as just the feeling that things might not be the same afterward. Like there would be this big awkward white elephant in the middle of the friendship after doing something like that. I mean, is it one of those things you do and then you're not supposed to speak of it afterward? Like Fight Club? Plus I've heard in those situations a lot of times one party ends up feeling like a third wheel.
The fact that she has a relationship of her own makes me a bit more open to it...I don't think she is trying to come between Walter and I in her own search for a mate...it's more just that we all seem open to the experience.
However, I think I need more time before I come up with any concrete answer. I know it would be several months before it could even happen anyway, so I've got time to ponder all the pros and cons.