Sexual Revolution

[Bring4th_Austin]

abridgetoofar - My story in regards to sex and all of the life experience conclusions mirror yours. We have very much lived the same life..you're not alone brother! I too perpetually ran into stumbling blocks that I can only come to the conclusion were for preincarnative reasons. It only crystallized my direction of seeking. I have had my fun now, but I know what I want. I don't think there is a void to fill, but would word it as having to learn how to accept myself and know that I am perfect. People naturally want to feel validated and accepted, but it is necessary to learn to love and accept yourself as being perfect. Great story..thanks for sharing!

Thank you! I think that's a very important point. A lot of people don't feel complete unless they're in a relationship, but what does that say about their relationship with themselves?

abridgetoofar, thank you for sharing, my brother! Although I wish to add that feeling of void inside the self is not always filled by other self in the relationship, even if that other self is a most loving person. You can still feel empty and alone even being in the most perfect relationship. That's how I felt for a long time... til... ta-taaam! I found Ra!

I honestly believe that my sexless life has led me to a very open understanding about sex and relationships, and I can't see my lonely experience to this point doing anything but serving me in the future.

Now that you've reached that conclusion - get out and make it manifest, my brother!

Thank you! Of course, the void only seems to be filled by being in a relationship, and having the love and attention of another can be a nice distraction from having to look deep inside yourself and accept what you see. Now that I've spent so much time alone in self-reflection, when the time comes, I can put it all out on the table without insecurity or worry.

Also, for me as well, Ra and L/L Research definitely help me understand life and allowed me to fill the void for myself. Thank you Ra, Don, Carla, and Jim!